adelfue Posted May 1, 2017 Posted May 1, 2017 Hi Everyone! I am back , 11 months after break up to tell you guys that things get better when the break up happened i would come back here to get hope and think he would come back after a 2 year relationship and a sudden break up , we broke up may 27 and by september he already had another girl that was the last time i spoke to him , since then I've been focusing on building my life and my self esteem back , and having 100% control of my life as well , I do not hope for him to come back to me because I know i deserve better now I am telling everyone that is going through hard times that better days will come that no contact is really your best friend and that healing happens when you focus on your life and your achievements. I thought i was going to die if i wasnt with him and that my life was nothing without him. he never told me he had someone else and i kept begging him to come back from june-september not everyday but i wouldnt give up when the reality is that he was not in love with me and he never accepted the person that i was , guys make it really clear when they really dont care about the relationship anymore , we never know what the future has for us and i dont know if i will ever see him again. But i do wish him a lot of happiness and that no one ever hurts him the way that he hurt me. he got mad when his cousin told me he had a girlfriend and that he had introduced her to his family , because he said i would make a big deal about it , i just believe that he was upset that i wasnt going to be giving him any more attention anymore. to everyone trying to change themselves to fit someone dont try. My ex forced me to be vegan or he would dump me , now the girl hes with she is not vegan and would never be one , he said he would never be with a white girl or with someone with a child , guess what that's what he found. save yourself the suffering focus on you and attract the lover who actually deserves you. i hope whoever is reading this to have great healing journey and wait for what you guys actually deserve.
Telemachus Posted May 2, 2017 Posted May 2, 2017 Imagine if you'd refused to live vegan at the very outset, and he'd dumped you right away for that. You put yourself through a lot by continuing. That bad ending was foreseeable at many points, yet you persisted. We live and learn. Some people learn that fire is hot and will burn by hearing about it. Others learn it by seeing others burned. Still others learn about it only by putting their own hands in the flame. You placed yourself in that third category at the outset of this relationship. I hope others learn from your story, but some, like you, will undoubtedly put their own hands into the fire.
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