penelopeanne Posted May 13, 2017 Posted May 13, 2017 It makes it hard to know what to do. She broke up with me under the pretense that i would break up with her, she didnt exactly say it but it was pretty obvious. Its straight forward on paper, i was dumped but sometimes it doesn't feel that way. So its an internal conflict i seem to be experiencing in this grieving process. Social media may be an illusion but it's still significant. It's essentially a public album for everyone to see. You wouldnt leave framed pictures of an ex at the office or at home while dating someone else would you? That is an odd practice. I agree about social media and I am finding it an evil place to be while going through this break up. I havent found the strength to block my ex or not look at his pages (not yet, anyways) and so I went off of it for now because it will be healthier for me but also because he kept liking my photos. He is really into social media (though he will complain about it) and I can take it or leave it and find it rather unhealthy on many levels. BUT, the fact that he cowardly ended the relationship of 2+ years via email, after I was talking about being unhappy, and not giving me any communication beyond that and basically falling off the face of the earth for the last few months yet he still likes my pics, is crazy to me. in fact, just 2 days after the breakup he liked a couple pics and i was so hurt by it. And I notice he is picky and choosy about what he likes. weeks after the break up I went on a solo trip out of the country- he didn't like a single photo from that. and why? and any photo I posted from our last trip (just before the break up), on my art page he has liked. he even recently liked a photo of mine from weeks ago with both of the instagram pages he has. it is all so very strange.
Marc878 Posted May 13, 2017 Posted May 13, 2017 You're overthinking this. She hasn't tried to contact you and is seeing someone else. The worst thing you can do is not move on. 1
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