Kay88 Posted May 1, 2017 Posted May 1, 2017 I was dating this guy for 7 months before he left for deployment to Africa. He proposed right before he left. I had mixed emotion about him leaving and if we would make it through the deployment but I was optimistic. I told him yo wait to ask me until he got back but surprised me and asked. I love him so I said yes. We stayed in contact and I waited for him to return. Things during the deployment were difficult. We had a few arguments. When he returned to the states he seemed very different and he said that he just wanted to be deployed again and that it didn't feel right being back. He then ended the engagement and told me he's not ready for a family and marriage. I ended our relationship and initiated no contact. It's been 7 weeks. All of a sundden he posts on a private Facebook group that we are both in that he is back and single and looking to meet other women. I am very hurt and upset and confused. I am so tempted to reach out to him to tel him that it hurt me. Is it worth it?
Gillys Posted May 1, 2017 Posted May 1, 2017 Nope...IMO it makes things worse. Exes never respond the way we want and it just adds more to your pain.
Zahara Posted May 1, 2017 Posted May 1, 2017 No. He doesn't care and even if he did, he can't extinguish your pain. It's something you have to come to terms with and manage on your own. Remove yourself from FB or block him. You need to take charge of your own healing.
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