please help me find out what to do about this guy....i want him so bad!!!

[chichi]

well i went out and he was there of course and we talked a lil bit but we didnt dance or anything because there was too many people there that like to talk **** and stuff they have no i idea about.....but ne ways he was a sweetheart for the most part until he started dancing with his ex but it didnt really bother me because i know that if he wanted to be with her than he could but he wasnt dancing with me and that is why i was a lil upset about the whole situation.....he called me today and wants to hang out but i dont know if i should keep being there always for him when ever he wants...........i want to be with him so bad but i know i cant have him because he doesnt want a relationship right now because he says he is too young to be serious.

 

i would love to be with him in a relationship because i like him so much and i enjoy spending time with him and he is just the whole package but i still dont know if he is a playa or not it doesnt seem like it but i guess you never know when you are with one or not. what do i do he calls me everyday and we talk all the time but is he just messing with me or does he really like me please help i know i keep talking about the same thing over and over but i really need advice on him because what if he is a really good guy and i listen to everyone else and i miss the opp to be with him because i didnt have faith in him i dont want to start out a relationship with no trust that is why i talk on here because i cant talk to anyone else about this situation.......please respond ASAP!

[AleroGurl]

talk to him!

ask him whats up! see if he wants to be with his ex again or if he wants to go out on a date with you...

 

and most of the time when ppl say a guy is a playa...9 times outa 10, he is a playa!

[AleroGurl]

but also...in ur other thread that i was just reading...

sometimes rumors get outa hand. ppl dont like buddy for some reason and start a little lie and it gets outa control...so he may be a decent guy with a rep that doesnt represent who he is...its a tough situation really. id just get to know him, hang out with him once in a while, and learn more about him

[chichi]

thanks for the advice......i do hangout with him all the time we go out and eat and go clubbbing and i think ppl are just jealous about me and him because there are alot of girls that like him and those are the ones that are telling me things about him...he is so fine and i know that ppl love to talk shyt to start shyt about other ppl so then they can try something with them themselves......when i am over at his house he doesnt treat me like a hoe or something he makes me food, massages me, and we could just cuddle all night he treats me with suck respect that if i were a f*** then why would he go out of his way to do things with and for me.

[AleroGurl]

well ppl can be vicious sometimes...i know my very first bf after he dumped me spread that i was this adn that. so some ppl still hear that about me but its soooooooo not true. so i mean. rumors can effect innocent ppl very badly! so i mean u cant raelly believe everything u hear about ppl. just take things really slow with this guy. and if he really cares for u and wants to be with JUST you, then let him prove it in his actions! they speak a hell of a lot louder then words, hun!!

[Mr.positive]

I agree you should definatley talk to him. But If thats not what you want then you shouldn't be with him.