winny Posted May 1, 2017 Posted May 1, 2017 I refuse to ever go out with someone I meet on OLD again! I never had so many dating problems until I started OLD. Am with you. It is the one place stop for all crap. 2
winny Posted May 1, 2017 Posted May 1, 2017 The first two dates went good and it was just a meetup with a hug on the first date, but he kept looking at every good looking female that would walk by towards the evening. (This bothered me) Payed for dinner and had a great conversation throughout the day. I appreciate the posts because I really need to hear this and read it out to myself. I'm not going to keep pushing this with every warning smacking me in the face and I do feel my eyes close to these signs. Its almost like my mind says "Well...it could be something else, he might be looking for something, maybe the pics is for art." Then seeing all the perverted gestures posted back 5 years tell another story and twists that thought. Sure..people can change and I by looking back there was hope it would tell me more about the guy, but it wasn't exactly what I wanted to stumble across. At this point ghosting sounds better than saying anything to him, given he tries confusing those intentions. Seriously..thanks again for the help and I'm starting to think all men start as players or I'm just meeting them under a rock. >_< Sweetheart - These subtle signs are what you should be on the look out for. And the earlier u catch them and move on the better. Saying from personal experience. I ignored many times... and caused me too much pain later on. 1
kendahke Posted May 3, 2017 Posted May 3, 2017 I'm starting to think all men start as players If all men are players, then are all women golddiggers? That's a false, blanket generalization to absolve you of your responsibility regarding choices you willingly make. No one held a gun to your head and forced you to give any of those past guys a chance, right? You made a decision of your own free will at some point to give them a chance and you have to find out why you did that. What was in it for you? No, all men aren't players. The ones you insist upon pursuing are--so you're going to have to look at why you keep giving a particular character access. The common denominator in all of these guys is you and what you are attracted to. The minute you figure out and vanquish whatever it is that attracts you, you'll begin to meet a better calibre of men. 1
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