Todd58 Posted April 30, 2017 Posted April 30, 2017 Before I met my Ex she had plans to travel the world for a few months. She didnt want to be held back from any experiences. Always thought she may change her mind as our relationship grew, but the travel seems to be something she had to do. The break up was mature and I didn't beg knowing she had to take this trip for her own wellbeing and there was nothing I could say or do. She asked to stay in contact, but I didn't think it was healthy for me as I shouldn't be waiting around and she could always meet someone else on the trip. She has contacted me once since the trip began wishing me well and I responded politely, but didn't ask any further questions - other than that it's been NC for two weeks. Given we had a great connection before this trip (I.e. she told me she nobody ever treated her better, great sex life, traveled and had fun together), is it crazy for me to think that she may reach out to me once the trip is over and it's back to real life?
fromheart Posted April 30, 2017 Posted April 30, 2017 Yes, its crazy. If she wanted you, she'd include you in her plans. Saying what she said was pretty immature but I'm guessing she's young. Unless you want to be her dildo back home, I'd remain non contact. Traveling girls are for fun, but generally make poor partners in my experience. And if you find yourself expecting an invite from a woman that never comes, always back away until the invite you are after comes. Otherwise, you become the puppy dog waiting to be taken inside.
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