mokymoky Posted April 28, 2017 Posted April 28, 2017 Hello all. So my boyfriend and I have been dating for around two months no and have known each other for three/four. Things have gotten intense quickly and we meet each other 3/4 times a week in which he usually spends the night at my place or I spend the night at his. We hang out with each other's friends and are around each other a lot when we have free time. The thing is, he moves around a lot for his job and thus is probably moving at the end of July. I am also starting my masters in cali in august so I will be moving. (We both live on island currently). My masters program will only take about a year though. Should I wait to bring up the topic of what will happen when we both have to move, or should I wait until we have more time under our belt and the move gets closer? The one time we kind of talked about he said "you're going to be leaving me for cali" and i said "i don't want it to end like that though" and he said "we will figure something out, youre worth it" but this is the only time it has been mentioned directly. I'm getting nervous about this as my feelings have been developing strongly for him and I don't want to lose the connection we have. Thank you for any insights.
d0nnivain Posted April 29, 2017 Posted April 29, 2017 I'd maybe give it another month to see if he starts the conversation first but you do need to address it at least a month before you leave. 1
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