rach233 Posted April 26, 2017 Posted April 26, 2017 Ok, so I've been talking to a guy who says he's had a crush on me for a couple years. He's someone from town whom I know from my sons sports rec leagues. So we began texting and chatting at little league games, etc. We did meet up one time casually at a bar with friends one night and hit it off really well...made out a little...it was nice. He works non-stop right now. He is a contractor and works during the day and then has a side project he's finishing up at night. So his days are very long and it's really hard to find time to spend together. I was totally open to moving slow and just getting to know each other while he finishes this job (I also just ended a relationship) and then hanging out more when he's more freed up. But he did ask me if I was free last night, which I was. He said he'd finish work and come over around 6. Well, 4:30 he said he wouldn't make it by 6, more like 7. 7 came and he said 8 at the latest. 8:30 came and he said he could come by 9. So I understand his work got in the way, but I didn't want him to think he could come by for a booty call. I said that it sort of felt like that to me but I wasn't trying to be nasty about it. He seemed to get pretty defensive and then basically told me that we shouldn't try to see each other until his project is done. Does this sound legit? Was he pissed that he couldn't come for a booty call or maybe I offended him? Should I believe him and let him finish up this job so we can spend more time? Obviously, either way I'll just play it cool and back off, but should I let him see me once his work craziness is over? I just don't want to get used. 1
smackie9 Posted April 26, 2017 Posted April 26, 2017 Used? You made out with him after one night of hanging out....I believe he has mistaken what you are interested in. If he makes you uncomfortable, then stop wasting your time.
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