Kinghurk Posted April 26, 2017 Posted April 26, 2017 Dated for 10 moths Started off great then I enlisted and was gone for four months. when I came back I was adjusting back to the civilian life. She was unhappy I wasn't myself. I neglected her a little but eventually, she had enough. she was hurt and didn't want a relationship anymore. she still wanted to see me and sleep with me though. while sleeping with other guys some with boyfriends and some she knew and told me when we were dating shed never have sex with them. it hurt finding that stuff out. after the guy she had sex with that she said she "never" would. she distanced herself more with me now we aren't talking or having sex. during the texting discussion about more distance she mentioned her still holding on to me. is it just me or is that ****ed up she's sleeping with other guys and holding on to me? she also mentioned that during the time we were broken up and she was ****ing other dudes I could have changed and taken her on dates. summer is coming up and I'm scared she'll try to reach out to me. first, because I think I still love her and second I don't know what to do. Like should I still love her after all the pain she caused me and confusion? I've been focusing on myself since and it's helped. What's the point of no return? I need opinions.
Maldives Posted April 26, 2017 Posted April 26, 2017 Dated for 10 moths Started off great then I enlisted and was gone for four months. when I came back I was adjusting back to the civilian life. She was unhappy I wasn't myself. I neglected her a little but eventually, she had enough. she was hurt and didn't want a relationship anymore. she still wanted to see me and sleep with me though. while sleeping with other guys some with boyfriends and some she knew and told me when we were dating shed never have sex with them. it hurt finding that stuff out. after the guy she had sex with that she said she "never" would. she distanced herself more with me now we aren't talking or having sex. during the texting discussion about more distance she mentioned her still holding on to me. is it just me or is that ****ed up she's sleeping with other guys and holding on to me? she also mentioned that during the time we were broken up and she was ****ing other dudes I could have changed and taken her on dates. summer is coming up and I'm scared she'll try to reach out to me. first, because I think I still love her and second I don't know what to do. Like should I still love her after all the pain she caused me and confusion? I've been focusing on myself since and it's helped. What's the point of no return? I need opinions. I wouldn't dude. Remember love shouldn't hurt that much. I face the same issue as u if my ex was to ever come back i hope I can abstain myself as hard as it is she caused me so much pain the last 7 mths now I'm finally starting to move on i dont wanna go backwards we had issues but breaking up and seeing how she was after I'd anything made me see her for who she truly is and it wasnt the same person I fell in love wth. Me n u if they came back i know I cldnt trust her again
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