act00 Posted April 27, 2017 Posted April 27, 2017 I'm going to say what everyone else is saying - develop a filter. You were rude and insulting. For the first girl, you could have stopped at "He bailed on me, so I wanted to ask you," since she was already aware you were going to go with a friend. And why did you say "forget it?" It seems you got offended by her, so you immediately ran away. She was willing to go, and it seemed more like a joke, since you did place her as a last resort. You could have had a fun time and future dates. Don't insult people's likes and preferences. If you don't like their music choices (movies, food), is it a deal breaker for you? Then you won't ask her out, but don't insult her either. You immediately looked down on her because she wasn't interested in what you think is more superior. As for girl number three, I don't know why that's so offensive, but maybe she was really nerdy and had difficulty in high school and is still a little raw over it. You could have simply complemented her on how smart she sounds. The reality is, you don't have to say everything you think, you need to learn to sugar coat, and you do need to learn to complement, not pull the superior, arrogant card on women. It clearly isn't working. 1
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