lawgirl79 Posted April 25, 2017 Posted April 25, 2017 Okay so I know you aren't supposed to disclose feelings to someone right away but is there a time when you are waiting for the OP and the OP is waiting for you to say how you feel? In that case, someone has to say it first. How do you handle that? If you have strong feelings for someone, not love, but your feelings are growing, should you tell them or wait for them to say something?
kgcolonel Posted April 25, 2017 Posted April 25, 2017 ask open ended questions....I am really enjoying this, I hope you are as well.....or......If you could guide this any direction you could, where would be be 6 months from now? Some people date just to have fun and some people date to find that special someone forever....what type do you see yourself? These might help you break the ice.
kendahke Posted April 25, 2017 Posted April 25, 2017 In my most recent experience, a man who is confident in the budding relationship will tell you how he feels. My guy sure did. It was refreshing. I was feeling the same way, but wasn't sure it was the right time to say anything. He beat me to the punch. Also in my most recent experience, a guy who is self-aware is a really good thing. 1
Tressugar Posted April 25, 2017 Posted April 25, 2017 Just tell him when you're sure of your feelings for him. If he dumps you or distance himself from you he wasn't the one for you. You can't live in fear. 4
Author lawgirl79 Posted April 25, 2017 Author Posted April 25, 2017 Thank you both. Tressugar, that is a great idea 1
preraph Posted April 25, 2017 Posted April 25, 2017 No. You should just show him with your actions. I mean, obviously if you are spending time together, you are both enjoying it. Talking can scare a lot of people off and they may decide you're moving too fast and break it off with you. Men are delicate creatures.
mikeylo Posted April 26, 2017 Posted April 26, 2017 I was the one who revealed that I was in love with my then gf ( now wife). She said and reciprocated the same time. Words were spoken the day I felt it. I didn't waste any time. In those times there weren't any cellphones , lol so life was harder ! Do it too early, it's not real in most cases. Take it too long, you might miss the train. 2
duncsvoice Posted April 26, 2017 Posted April 26, 2017 I told my partner that I wanted to spend loads of time with her and be exclusive pretty early on in the third date. That's what I felt at the time, so I said it. What am I waiting for? It to go wrong? The stars to align? She said it was so refreshing and made her so happy that she didn't have to question if I liked her or where it was going. I still feel the same, much farther down the road, and it's the best relationship I've ever had.
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