Jack420 Posted April 23, 2017 Posted April 23, 2017 Hi everyone, I have an understanding problem about my crush whom I love very much. I am confused and it really does hurt me She is different than other girls, we've hung out for a year and sometimes I have a feeling that I don't even know her. If I told you the whole backstory you would all be very very confused, on one hand you'd think that we should already be a couple, on the other hand you'd think that its just a friendship. I want to keep her interested and I'm running out of ideas because she's not showing any signs. She likes sleeping or just laying most of the time, she kinda hates school, likes weed etc, her social life is limited to her girl-friends and is not interested in nothing "not fun" related. About mixed signals, she has 2 sides: 1st side: She said that she doesn't wanna rush with relationships because she's too young (17) and I'm 20. 2nd side: She is generally not interested into guys, she prefers being at home but is interested in me, how do I know? - we text a lot - we went out multiple times (her requests mostly) - she said that she likes my pics and has mentioned that would like to have one (not-nude) pic of me. I would really like to take things further but I'm not getting anything from her and I don't want to lose her in meaning of a potential girlfriend. Please help me. If anyone has experience and would like to have a chat I would love to talk to someone about it.
preraph Posted April 23, 2017 Posted April 23, 2017 Where you live, is she underaged? Because if so, you better cool your jets until she's legal age and definitely don't be sending her any nude photos! Her parents will string you up and they probably check her phone since they probably pay for it. How many times have you made out? If the answer is never, then I will just tell you it surely would have happened by now, but because she sounds underaged, I won't tell you to step up and kiss her. But you can't just hang around forever assuming she will jump on you. Men are expected to take the lead. Google your state or country wherever you are and find out if it's even legal to be messing with her.
Author Jack420 Posted April 24, 2017 Author Posted April 24, 2017 (edited) Woah chill, I only said "not nude" because some people might think just that. Pictures were from the beach, gym, wedding etc. I have no intentions to have sex with her, I am in love, I am not aroused and honestly I can't even get a b*ner if I think about her. I also don't have an intention to shove my tounge down her throat, since I never kissed anyone before I meant only on the cheek. Edited April 24, 2017 by Jack420
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