sarina Posted July 30, 2005 Posted July 30, 2005 I had dated a guy a few times and had sex with him, but I don't think we're compatible. He wants something more long term and serious and I don't see that happening. How do I let him know I'm not interested without hurting his feelings? He is a very nice person.
lindya Posted July 30, 2005 Posted July 30, 2005 Originally posted by sarina How do I let him know I'm not interested without hurting his feelings? Sadly, I don't think you can. Just follow the advice Fly gave me in another thread...tell him you're not compatible, and leave it at that. You don't want to get drawn into commenting on his personal characteristics (even in a positive way) because then he might get paranoid about those particular traits. You've said that he's nice, so it sounds like he's fine as he is...but he's just not the right one for you.
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