benpom Posted April 22, 2017 Posted April 22, 2017 The secrets build relationships and also break relationships. Would you ask your lover about everything? Would you want to know everything? The truth may not be on your side. But if you don't know and you don't ask, there will always be a wall. Some relationships fail when the wall is down, because behind the wall lies ugly secrets. Some relationship thrive when the wall is down, because behind the wall is beauty and trust.
Inya Posted April 22, 2017 Posted April 22, 2017 Hi there, here is how I see things I've been in many relationships (I'm over 40), some good some bad...I'm a very private and reserved person with thrust issues, I need my space, my own world. More that I felt connected to one person more I shared or more I let them into my world, but I woul'd never share my deepest thoughts with anyone. I've heard many times from my ex-es that I was a complete mystery to them. I was never intentionally hiding anything, I replied every question if asked. I guess I just didn't feel a need to share. And then there was this man...after a month I let him see my soul, I wanted him to see my soul and I needed him to see my soul. Even if we can't be together, I will always cherish our magic no matter how much it hurts. It was the most wonderful experience in my life.
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