rev808 Posted July 30, 2005 Posted July 30, 2005 Hello all, I've been with this beautyful, hot girl for 2 years. No I'm not a hot guy either, so I treat her well. Here's the story: Last weekend I left for 2 days, she stopped answering my calls for one day, she said her cell was acting up, ok I said. She came over Wed morning, we spent a good day together, but I noticed she being different, sexually, & the way she acted. Thurs morning I decided to go through her picture mail & guess what? She sent a few of x-rated pix to an unknown number. So I call it, the guy tells me, he met her at the mall, she picked him up, got his number. That night he got these x-rated pixs of her, so he called her and the next day, they slepted together, and she spent the night with him. Well I confronted her, and of course denied it, then she admited to it. Now comes Sat, she doesn't know what to do, but I asked her to try to work this out, she said no, she wanted to try the new guy out. That night I talked to this guy, and he found out who I was, so he didn't want any trouble, so he stepped off. She got mad, & I laughed. Come Sun, she wants to stay with me & work it out, I take her back. Yet she can't tell my why she did this, she said that she wasn't thinking & was confused. I talked to this guy again & he told me, they made plans for the rest of that week they hooked up. So I know she wasn't confused, what do you think I should do? Should I suffer & keep going out with her? Mind you I can't get this matter of my mind. Plus me & this boy toy of hers have hung out at the bar today, and he told me everything that they did & talked about, why? Cause he said he didn't want any trouble, cause she said she was single. Now all I hear from her is that she is sorry and it won't happen anymore.......damm I'm so confused!
zuir1 Posted July 30, 2005 Posted July 30, 2005 Well my gurl cheated on me before and I had to find it out like you did. By investigating. I gave her another chance and I noticed things werent the same. It was different now. I did everything in the book to try to make her feel better, from buying expensive gifts, to taking her out, to making things from "Art" for her. But she was confused and wanted time. Eventually we broke up. I loved the gurl to death and did everything to get back with her. We went out again and she cheated on me again with a different guy. She felt so bad always calling me crying and telling me this and that. Its so hard especially when there good liars. She would lie to me in my face. But I had to find things out the hard way. But it took A LONG TIME and ALOT of thinking to give her another chance, but i decided to. Now I see a definite improvment in our relationship and she's doing everything in her power to make me happy and make it up to me. The point is that you never know whats going to happen. She might change or she might cheat on you again like I was cheated on again. I'm not saying keep accepting her back. Only do that if u truly think that she'll change. But talk is cheap she has to actually show you. And its gonna be hard for you cause your always gonna take everything she does wrong negative and think shes always cheating on you. You have to ethier trust her 100% or 0%. There is no in between. Its your decision. You might get hurt again or you might have a great relationship....But its gonna be hard and its gonna take ALOT of patience and pain to even get better if u accept her back. Alright I hope that helps
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