rev808 Posted July 30, 2005 Posted July 30, 2005 Hello all, I've been with this beautyful, hot girl for 2 years. No I'm not a hot guy either, so I treat her well. Here's the story: Last weekend I left for 2 days, she stopped answering my calls for one day, she said her cell was acting up, ok I said. She came over Wed morning, we spent a good day together, but I noticed she being different, sexually, & the way she acted. Thurs morning I decided to go through her picture mail & guess what? She sent a few of x-rated pix to an unknown number. So I call it, the guy tells me, he met her at the mall, she picked him up, got his number. That night he got these x-rated pixs of her, so he called her and the next day, they slepted together, and she spent the night with him. Well I confronted her, and of course denied it, then she admited to it. Now comes Sat, she doesn't know what to do, but I asked her to try to work this out, she said no, she wanted to try the new guy out. That night I talked to this guy, and he found out who I was, so he didn't want any trouble, so he stepped off. She got mad, & I laughed. Come Sun, she wants to stay with me & work it out, I take her back. Yet she can't tell my why she did this, she said that she wasn't thinking & was confused. I talked to this guy again & he told me, they made plans for the rest of that week they hooked up. So I know she wasn't confused, what do you think I should do? Should I suffer & keep going out with her? Mind you I can't get this matter of my mind. Plus me & this boy toy of hers have hung out at the bar today, and he told me everything that they did & talked about, why? Cause he said he didn't want any trouble, cause she said she was single. Now all I hear from her is that she is sorry and it won't happen anymore.......damm I'm so confused!
GuerreroAzteca Posted July 30, 2005 Posted July 30, 2005 DUDE! the girl cheated on you man let it GO! NOW!! WHat is wrong w/you
Mr.pos Posted July 31, 2005 Posted July 31, 2005 Dude I wouldn't believe her, but If you want to be with her you guys might want to have an open relationship. Sorry to hear that dude.
Cecelius Posted August 1, 2005 Posted August 1, 2005 Dump her. Re-read your post in a couple days. Your g/f let herself get treated like a low rent porn star and she did it willingly. Who cares if she's sorry? Who cares if it never happens again. After somethings happen, you can NEVER think of your girl the same way again. Best to walk far away.
mach3 Posted August 1, 2005 Posted August 1, 2005 Man - just walk. I took a lot of crap from a girl I loved very much. It took me a good 6 months to get over her, no contact and such. She still calls on occasion - but now I wake up and thing, what the hell was I thinking.
ConfusedInOC Posted August 1, 2005 Posted August 1, 2005 Past behavior is a good indicator of future behavior. RUN AWAY, RUN AWAY, RUN AWAY. Who cares how hot she is? She cheated on you and doens't deserve you. Nut it up and LEAVE her.
New_Wife Posted August 1, 2005 Posted August 1, 2005 I can tell you how to fix this and get her to be exactly the woman you want her to be. All I need you to do is send me a quart of your blood, your left index finger, and $2,599.99 U.S. (no personal checks please). Then my highly trained squad of psychic rodents will read your blood and consult with the neighbor's dogs to formulate a plan (and a magic spell) just for you. Sound ridiculous? So does your dillema. Why are you even agonizing over this? What exactly would she have to do to make it clearer to you? Fire automatic weapons at your head? Getting AIDS from a "hot chick" doesn't make you any less sick than getting it from an ugly one. Why not find a girl who won't take that kind of risk with your life and your heart?
begman Posted August 2, 2005 Posted August 2, 2005 This a no brainer. The girl is a ho. Get out. It will be better for you in the long run. She obviously isn't that in love since she wanted to be with this other guy. You need to turn you back and go. Believe me I know. My last girl was like that. A big flirt. I never caught her cheating but I had my suspicions. Even though I loved her I'm glad I'm out. There is another hot girl out there dude that will repect how you treat them and want to be with you and you only.
krystalboricua$ Posted August 4, 2005 Posted August 4, 2005 hey baby, well she stuip and u need to dump her ,u deserve better and to be treated better. she did it cuz maybe she doesnt want u or she wants more sex from diff guys. but dont go out wit her, she cheated and once u cheat your going to do it again. i know u love her but move on there is better girls out there. please just listen to yur heart.!!
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