Do Latina women (both US and non-US born) love to be in a relationship with...

[Aztecgentlman480]

US-born Latino man who is a nice guy that likes to reciprocate by making her food every now and then, surprise her with a few simple gifts and then cuddle with her very often and not be the stereotypical macho Latino guy?

 

Just curious, I'm a Latino guy(Mexican-American) who is a "nice guy" but at the same time, am not a push over (I still won't take abuse or any crap from ungrateful women or people in general who thinks just because I'm a nice person, I'm someone to easily take advantage of).

 

I believe I can be a nice guy and still be masculine. I'd just love to be with a fellow Latina who can nurture me, look after me whenever I'm seriously hurt, show me a lot of intimacy, basically show me how much she really loves me while I do the all same in return for her. I don't expect her to be the stereotypically great Latina housewife or perfect but at least see her putting in great amount of effort in the relationship as much as me and make it mutually about both of us and not make it only about one of us.

 

In short words, I want my equal partner.

Edited April 19, 2017 by Aztecgentlman480
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[coolheadal]

Are you sure that's what you really want? Because the only way that's going to work if she's been raised by loving caring parents. When they're not then she'll walk all over you. Can't be too nice you have confidence and very good self-esteem to cut today. These women are no push overs. I've dated a few to learn how they operate.

[Aztecgentlman480]

Are you sure that's what you really want? Because the only way that's going to work if she's been raised by loving caring parents. When they're not then she'll walk all over you. Can't be too nice you have confidence and very good self-esteem to cut today. These women are no push overs. I've dated a few to learn how they operate.

 

I already stated here that despite being a nice guy, I'm still no pushover and refuse to take any abuse from ungrateful women by allowing them to take me for granted.

[coolheadal]

I already stated here that despite being a nice guy, I'm still no pushover and refuse to take any abuse from ungrateful women by allowing them to take me for granted.

 

 

Yes I read that already, the post I wrote flip over and that post is the end result. So what do you really want. Those that except you as you are and don't want the aggressive ones that would push you over sounds like you been pushed over already. Most of these type you can't change them, they're way to out of your league.

[Aztecgentlman480]

Yes I read that already, the post I wrote flip over and that post is the end result. So what do you really want. Those that except you as you are and don't want the aggressive ones that would push you over sounds like you been pushed over already. Most of these type you can't change them, they're way to out of your league.

 

How do I sound like I've been pushed around? I'm not an *******/jerk until people give me a reason for me to be pissed off and be a jerk to them.

[coolheadal]

How do I sound like I've been pushed around? I'm not an *******/jerk until people give me a reason for me to be pissed off and be a jerk to them.

 

Relax your not getting it. Have you dated one of these women that tried to push you over?

[Aztecgentlman480]

Relax your not getting it. Have you dated one of these women that tried to push you over?

No, never. I don't know if you're trying to troll here(judging by the tone of your posts and your wordings) or you just can't get straight to the point and tell me what you're trying to imply.

[Ami1uwant]

What had your experience Bern with latin women???

 

I dated for 4 yrs one that was born in south america. She told me her fathe would disown her if she dated a mexican.

[loverboy69]

What had your experience Bern with latin women???

 

I dated for 4 yrs one that was born in south america. She told me her fathe would disown her if she dated a mexican.

 

 

Prejudice exists all over the world. I'm half latino half white but 100% American. I've learned this first hand visiting countries in Central and South America. Many of these Latin countries feel a sense of superiority over the others and nationalism stems high.

 

I've heard my Argentinian grandfather call Mexican's similar names so I know what you mean.

[loverboy69]

US-born Latino man who is a nice guy that likes to reciprocate by making her food every now and then, surprise her with a few simple gifts and then cuddle with her very often and not be the stereotypical macho Latino guy?

 

Just curious, I'm a Latino guy(Mexican-American) who is a "nice guy" but at the same time, am not a push over (I still won't take abuse or any crap from ungrateful women or people in general who thinks just because I'm a nice person, I'm someone to easily take advantage of).

 

I believe I can be a nice guy and still be masculine. I'd just love to be with a fellow Latina who can nurture me, look after me whenever I'm seriously hurt, show me a lot of intimacy, basically show me how much she really loves me while I do the all same in return for her. I don't expect her to be the stereotypically great Latina housewife or perfect but at least see her putting in great amount of effort in the relationship as much as me and make it mutually about both of us and not make it only about one of us.

 

In short words, I want my equal partner.

 

They exist but the you'll have the best luck finding a Latina who is first or second generation.

[coolheadal]

I already stated here that despite being a nice guy, I'm still no pushover and refuse to take any abuse from ungrateful women by allowing them to take me for granted.

 

Your Mexican so your issue here is that you can't find Latino Woman who would date you because you precede yourself as nice guy who won't be pushed over by aggressive Latino women. You shouldn't have a problem any Latino women that would want to be with. You shouldn't base this on your country of origin. I personally have dated Cubans, Puerto Ricans, Dominican republics, Peruvians, Colombians but no women from your country. I think your issue stems because you are getting the idea just because Your Mexican, you can't get a Latino who won't date you because of your country of origin or you just can't find one who would accept you as nice guy Latino man. Which to me shouldn't matter, because they're dating a guy that want to be with. Your issue is could be that your feel your not brawny enough as a Latino man that current crop of Latino woman today. Not ever women no matter what culture they're from going to accept nice over a mucho guys Latino or not. Not to be rude but what I've learned and heard some Latino's Women won't go out with Mexican Latino Men, some domestic whites women will. I know two American women who have dated and one has married one had 3 kids with him. She later learned that he was a cheater had totally has 9 with her 3 total. Listen not every woman going to want every guy based on nice or mucho guys. Your just not meeting the right Latino Women that you want to be with that will accept you has nice Latino Man.

[CptInsano]

In my personal experience there are plenty of educated women from Central and South America who are looking for guys that don't fit a stereotypical macho culture. My question is rather why the OP has a problem connecting with them.