jthomas89 Posted April 18, 2017 Posted April 18, 2017 So I met a girl on a dating app. We texted for a few days and I set up a date for next Friday because I will be at Coachella this weekend. How often should I text her? I would rather get to know her in person, but the first date is so far out. I don't want to text everyday, but I don't want it to seem like I forgot about her or not interested.
Titanll Posted April 18, 2017 Posted April 18, 2017 At least 100 times per day for starters, then ramp up accordingly! Just kidding. Text and let her know that you are available to talk/text. You two will figure it out. No one here actually has the answer to your question and beware anyone that says that they do.
thecrucible Posted April 18, 2017 Posted April 18, 2017 I agree that you don't need to text her everyday but you could text her a bit so she knows the date is definitely still on. Do you have a plan for the date? If you don't have specifics laid out yet, you could use text to finalise that. To me that would help me get more excited about the date and look forward to what the man had planned. 1
OatsAndHall Posted April 18, 2017 Posted April 18, 2017 I text or call the woman I am seeing right now every couple of days. We've been out three times but we're both ridiculously busy so I'm not pushing it.
coolheadal Posted April 19, 2017 Posted April 19, 2017 So I met a girl on a dating app. We texted for a few days and I set up a date for next Friday because I will be at Coachella this weekend. How often should I text her? I would rather get to know her in person, but the first date is so far out. I don't want to text everyday, but I don't want it to seem like I forgot about her or not interested. Why go blind? Why not get her on Skype or Facebook messenger video. Talk in real-time and see if you too really hit off. Saves a lot of time and money. Really don't want to be just her text buddy. Phone is used for setting up the date. Text is for saying hi, good morning I missed you etc..In person you have a lot to talk about you see. If you text too much then she might not want to go out since you already told her so much of what you have done that day or week.
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