Angel29 Posted April 16, 2017 Posted April 16, 2017 I met a guy through mutual friends and he kept liking all my FB photos and statuses. I have been on Facebook today and it now says he 'is in a relationship'. I feel a bit of a mug as I was hoping to get to know him more. I know it's early days but am I best to avoid him or still be on friendly terms? I don't want to fall for him but ignoring him seems rude. Does that mean he must of known this woman longer than a month as I have only known him for this long? Just feel fed up.
smackie9 Posted April 16, 2017 Posted April 16, 2017 Liking photos is just that, liking photos. How can you call that attraction or romantic interest? You can't. He is just being a social. You can't put much weight on someone "liking" posts and photos. Now if he was calling you boo, flirting and making sexual comments, you have a case there. 5
Ami1uwant Posted April 16, 2017 Posted April 16, 2017 Some people are the type who like to have a new partner there before breaking up with someone else. He might have some interest in you but its hard to tell. You need to see him more and find out how he is.
basil67 Posted April 16, 2017 Posted April 16, 2017 Sweetie, that's what friends do on FB. It's the whole point of the thing. 3
Dark Horse Posted April 16, 2017 Posted April 16, 2017 OP, all you have to do is find out where he lives, knock on his door, and start singing you Belong With Me by Taylor Swift. If you play Guitar, bring that too. I mean sure he may slam the door in your face and call the police, but there may be a chance that he may actually like you back, 1
Jj66 Posted April 17, 2017 Posted April 17, 2017 When I like a photo on Facebook it could mean I want to bend you over my couch and have my way with you or it could just mean I like your photo. Usually it's the latter. 3
d0nnivain Posted April 17, 2017 Posted April 17, 2017 We have no idea how long he knew the person he is now in a relationship with. If you don't know that, your relationship with him was tenuous at best. Liking a picture does not signal romantic interest. Since that wasn't super clear to you, I suggest at a minimum you unfollow him on FB. You'd still be friends but his stuff won't show up in your feed. If he likes something else of yours, ignore him. Do not read into it. One click does not mean he's thinking about cheating on his new SO with you. There is no need to be rude to him but add in a little distance until you can recognize a platonic interaction for what it is -- innocent. 1
sandrawg Posted April 17, 2017 Posted April 17, 2017 Wait..this guy only liked your stuff and you never even chatted? And you're asking this question? *smh* 2
preraph Posted April 17, 2017 Posted April 17, 2017 He's liking a hundred other girls social media stuff too. It means nothing other than you have an audience, but you're one among many. What you don't want is to horn in on him while he's seeing someone else, because that makes you look unethical, and him too.
Titanll Posted April 17, 2017 Posted April 17, 2017 What has the world come to...I seriously want to know. 2
MoreThanThat Posted April 17, 2017 Posted April 17, 2017 Gees. I have 1-2 new guys go through my photos/status updates a day liking stuff. Many of them are married or involved. It really doesn't mean anything and without personal communication, it's nothing to read more into. 1
Author Angel29 Posted April 17, 2017 Author Posted April 17, 2017 It was besides the likes that I came to this conclusion. I have an app which tells you who looks at your profile and he was the number one person and plus his close family friends have been looking me up too. Otherwise I would just ignore the situation.
Titanll Posted April 17, 2017 Posted April 17, 2017 It was besides the likes that I came to this conclusion. I have an app which tells you who looks at your profile and he was the number one person and plus his close family friends have been looking me up too. Otherwise I would just ignore the situation. And this adds nothing to your original post, really. If you want serious replies at this point, I would ask your age, dating experience, known mental health issues, un-diagnosed mental health issues, etc. If you are twelve, you have my most sincere apology. If you are 13 or older, you need to realize how silly your thread sounds. If you are looking for laughs, kudos! You got me! Otherwise, how silly is it to make any connection with liking a photo on facebook and the beginnings of undying love? Tell me please? 1
JuneL Posted April 17, 2017 Posted April 17, 2017 I met a guy through mutual friends and he kept liking all my FB photos and statuses. I have been on Facebook today and it now says he 'is in a relationship'. I feel a bit of a mug as I was hoping to get to know him more. I know it's early days but am I best to avoid him or still be on friendly terms? I don't want to fall for him but ignoring him seems rude. Does that mean he must of known this woman longer than a month as I have only known him for this long? Just feel fed up. I have a couple of fb friends who would like pretty much every single post/picture of mine; I consider both of them acquaintances, not even friends, in real life.
leogirl876 Posted April 18, 2017 Posted April 18, 2017 It sounds like you're infatuated or in a bit of a fantasy. I don't see how you can fall for someone that you don't even know or barely know? And liking a FB pic doesn't mean anything. Maybe he knew this girl for a long time. I would forget about him and go out and meet other people.
leogirl876 Posted April 18, 2017 Posted April 18, 2017 And this adds nothing to your original post, really. If you want serious replies at this point, I would ask your age, dating experience, known mental health issues, un-diagnosed mental health issues, etc. If you are twelve, you have my most sincere apology. If you are 13 or older, you need to realize how silly your thread sounds. If you are looking for laughs, kudos! You got me! Otherwise, how silly is it to make any connection with liking a photo on facebook and the beginnings of undying love? Tell me please? Maybe it is a teenager posting this?
hercules22 Posted April 18, 2017 Posted April 18, 2017 i always like different girls photos doesnt mean it showing interest i even like random models photos that pop up on my news feed even when girls like my photos i dont even see it as interest they simply just liked the photo lol
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