ironpony Posted April 16, 2017 Posted April 16, 2017 On some profiles on internet dating where the women answer the question of whether or not they 'do drugs', some women will answer 'socially'. What does mean exactly? I mean if a person does drugs, usually the become addicted and they are going to do it socially, or alone, or whenever, cause they are addicted right? I mean if the answers are 'no', 'socially', and 'yes', what kind of drug doing would it have to be, to be in between no and yes, and for it be 'socially'? I just want to be safe, and have second thoughts, when I read that. I mean I could ask the women, but I am afraid that they might tell me what they think I might want to here, and not tell the whole truth there, so I was just wondering what it is they are most likely into, if they choose that answer to pick from.
Author ironpony Posted April 16, 2017 Author Posted April 16, 2017 Under smoking a lot of them put 'occasionally'.
coolheadal Posted April 16, 2017 Posted April 16, 2017 (edited) On some profiles on internet dating where the women answer the question of whether or not they 'do drugs', some women will answer 'socially'. What does mean exactly? I mean if a person does drugs, usually the become addicted and they are going to do it socially, or alone, or whenever, cause they are addicted right? I mean if the answers are 'no', 'socially', and 'yes', what kind of drug doing would it have to be, to be in between no and yes, and for it be 'socially'? I just want to be safe, and have second thoughts, when I read that. I mean I could ask the women, but I am afraid that they might tell me what they think I might want to here, and not tell the whole truth there, so I was just wondering what it is they are most likely into, if they choose that answer to pick from. OKC has this option: Drugs - Never, Often, Sometimes - me:NEVER I don't see the point in doing drugs. When I was younger they came up to me to take the hit I always said no. I will never take it. Socially means they do it with others in a group setting. Party etc.. Often they do every chance they get. Sometimes when they want too. Why would you want to date someone who does drugs. It can lead to substance abuse. There are some worse types too. I have been with women who take drugs, because they lied to me about it. OKC they lie about never smoking and never drinking and drugs too. Lie about their age also. So much lies I can only tolerate so much. You have to decided what you want. We can only tell you what we would do here. I myself was raised differently I will overlook this behavior if I was madly in love with the woman. I have such a woman after a week of silence and not grudges just have to let them be or forgive them. If they break their habit or you can assist them that's great. When they turn down the AC to 70 F or lower you know the drugs is still in them or they're still taking it. Then you have to choose. Tough to do but only you can deal with it. I am strong I will help her this is my GF. You do what you have to do okay.. Good luck. Edited April 16, 2017 by coolheadal
Author ironpony Posted April 16, 2017 Author Posted April 16, 2017 Oh okay thanks. Well basically if it was pot for example, so many people smoke pot, that maybe I could accept that since a lot of those people I know are still normal. I have two friends that do it, so I figure maybe if I could accept them doing it, maybe I could in a woman. But if it's something more addicting, then maybe I might have a problem with that I figured.
Author ironpony Posted April 16, 2017 Author Posted April 16, 2017 Oh okay thanks. Well basically if it was pot for example, so many people smoke pot, that maybe I could accept that since a lot of those people I know are still normal. I have two friends that do it, so I figure maybe if I could accept them doing it, maybe I could in a woman. But if it's something more addicting, then maybe I might have a problem with that I figured.
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