RedRider600 Posted April 16, 2017 Posted April 16, 2017 I met a stripper at club last December. She's beautiful but despite her good looks I've felt like she has a down to earth personality. The day I met her we chatted for a little bit and then I got a dance from her. I went home and that was that but I returned to the same club two weeks later. As soon as I walked in she was sitting down with some other and as soon as she saw me, she started smiling at me. I was hoping she didn't come to talk to me because I wanted to interact with other girls, but she did. She sat down and enthusiastically said to me "hey how are you?....I'm so glad that you're here that guy I was sitting with is such a weirdo". She was telling that she enjoyed to talking to me because "I'm a normal guy". I got a dance from her that night and after the dance she asked me if I was going to stay. I told her yes and I did. A little while later she came and sat with me and stayed with me for a long while before getting up and doing some rounds (asking other guys if they wanted a lap dance). While she was doing that another girl came and sat with me. This seemed make her jealous but after the girl left, she came back and sat with me for the remainder of her shift. I started to feel as though she might like me because of the signs that she had exhibited. I left that night without getting her number. For the next few months she didn't return to the club. I felt angry and sort of depressed because I didn't get her number when I had the chance to. Recently I return and When I walked into the club I saw her sitting in a corner talking to some other guy. I couldn't tell if it was her or not but I kept looking her. She looked back a couple times and after giving the guy she was talking to a lap dance, she came and sat with me. She seemed very happy to see me and was like "Hey how you been, it's been so long, I'm glad you're here because I enjoy your company, you're not like the rest of these weirdos". She told me that she should've given me her number but didn't know why she didn't. We spent a good time chatting before I asked her for a lap dance. After the dance was over we talked some more. She told me that "we should hang out outside of the club". I told her that I loved how she's beautiful but not stuck up. She then told me that "she genuinely likes me". She gave me her number and txt her but the message never went through for some reason. She then called my phone and it went through. She was adamant of me saving her number and was like "don't go until I see you put my number in your phone". She then told me that "Use my number" (as in I better call her / txt her). I didn't know how to start a conversation with her so today I txt her "Hey It was good seeing you again" :-) hoping that would get some sort of conversation going....It's been about 5 hours and she hasn't replied. We both have iPhones and all the message says is "delivered" and doesn't say wether it was opened or not. She gave me all of the signs of genuine interested yet now it seems like she ignored my text. Stripper or not she's beautiful, funny, and someone I'd like to spend time with....What should I do next?
Titanll Posted April 16, 2017 Posted April 16, 2017 Stop hanging out in strip clubs looking to meet the love of your life for starters... Beyond that, who knows? maybe try getting some hobbies, work out a bit, maybe grab a buddy and hit a club and have a beer or two.
BaileyB Posted April 16, 2017 Posted April 16, 2017 Stop hanging out in strip clubs looking to meet the love of your life for starters... Good advice! I say live your life. The chances that a stripper is going to pick you out of the crowd and that you will live happily ever after are probably slim to none. But, good luck to you!
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