Versacehottie Posted April 16, 2017 Posted April 16, 2017 See i have not messaged her since friday and we scheduled the second date for monday after the first date. Would it not be better to call her this evening considering we agreed on Monday? You are looking for the one perfect magic answer. You need to get used to the idea that there isn't one. If there was a magic formula to follow, people would be selling it. My opinion is just an opinion but I may more closely resemble this girl in the way she is interacting with you. That said, if I had told you the texting is too much (effectively "back off a bit"), the last thing I would want to see is eager beaver on Sunday night like an obedient school boy calling in to make sure we are still on & trying to make sure I'm happy, tip toeing around. You gotta look at it like this: if she wasn't gonna flake she will still be into it tomorrow. She told you she had plans this weekend. Let her finish them. Plus you should be busy with your own things--so when a person tells you to take a step back, you don't keep moving in, in desperation. She's not afraid of losing you. you show her you are equally not afraid of losing her or her backing out. I honestly think if she tells you tomorrow that she has made other plans she was going to flake anyway. There is a bit of desperation which i'm sure she is picking up on. You want to lock this down and do everything "right" so you don't "mess up with her". You have to look at the bigger picture: you plant seeds so this won't just be a quick burn and fail. I'm not talking being disrespectful but taking back a bit of your own identity. Ultimately you COULD call her tonight. But she might feel smothered. If you want to work on getting across who you are accurately rather than her just see the anxious guy who needs reassurance from her. Which are you? I think you have some "resetting" to do. Sounds like she ALREADY sees you as the guy who will be "right there" following all the rules and overanxious for feedback from her & reassurance. Maybe shake it up a bit. I mean let's just look at this from the point of view of: if someone told you to back off, aren't you just the slightest bit offended or unsure if she is worth pursuing---those guys are jumping to do everything perfectly in an attempt to win her over. Show her that you care about yourself equally (or actually more at this point into knowing her) and it will pay benefits. People want an equal.
Author andrewimecs Posted April 17, 2017 Author Posted April 17, 2017 Okay, to start this off so we can get a little bit of some background information on this story. I met this girl at a bar and we ended up going on a date 3 days later. She initiated the conversation and I asked her out on the date 3 days after the bar meet up. We went out on Tuesday and I asked her out Monday. The date could not have gone any better. So much flirting and a ton of excellent interaction. I eventually walked her home and we both looked at each other and kissed. She told me to keep next Monday open and pencil it in on your calendar so basically the second date.It was beautiful and I felt amazing. I messaged her that night saying thank you for the good time. She messaged the next day, so Wednesday and called me the most genuine person she has ever met. The conversation was light and friendly all day on Wednesday. Then Thursday came along and the conversation was light but she stopped texting me after 1 p.m. Thursday. I messaged her again at around 7 ish checking if she was okay and stuff. She still did not respond so I waited 24 hours and messaged her giving her a light cheesy line basically showing that I was not mad. Here is what I sent "Hey there! Haven't heard from you in a while, get kidnapped by E.T. and his pals or something? =)". She then responded an hour later saying " Hey! Sorry, no not kidnapped by E.T., To be honest, all the texting is a little much for me. It's all kind of too much too early if you know what I mean". At this point, I was like **** everyone warned me to take it easy with texting but at least she responded. I responded saying basically no worries and I am glad she let me know have an excellent weekend. I waited 2 days and called her today regarding our second date tomorrow. She responded two hours later apologizing for not picking up and basically said " Hey Andrew, I just got your message I'm just getting home now. Hope you had a good Easter weekend! So for tomorrow I could just say that I have a ton to do with getting organized again after being away all weekend, but I also just don't know if I really see this going anywhere romantically, I'm sorry" Obviously, this broke my heart but I did not want to be sour because she is a nice girl and let me off nicely. So I responded saying " Hey Meagen my weekend was great! And that's fair I totally understand. But let me just say this and ask one question. I honestly thought we had a great date and to be honest I really felt it with you and thought you were a dream come true. Your are beautiful and have many common interests. I feel like I may have done something wrong to make you feel like this. I just want to know maybe where I went wrong or what I did not do to make you feel romantically invested in me. Be honest lol". Okay so basically I am a little upset with being let off but now I am super confused. I want her of course and I am wondering if there is any possible way to make her feel like she did on our first date. I am on the fence and I am not sure if I want to win her back or move on. What are good possible solutions for trying to win her back and what are some good possible solutions for moving on. By the way, I got out of a 6-year relationship 4 months ago and I am wondering if my emotions are taking over. Let me know all my possibilities because I am so confused and my heart does not know what it wants.
Mkn1010 Posted April 17, 2017 Posted April 17, 2017 While I agree with the above tips generally, I don't think they're that significant at all when somebody really wants to take things further and you're on the same page. Texting vs calling, whether it's today, tomorrow or the next will not make you anymore or less likely to win her over in my opinion. Delaying contacting her is just delaying the answers for yourself.
Marc878 Posted April 17, 2017 Posted April 17, 2017 Listen and watch.....she didn't respond because she didn't want too (watch). She told you it's waaaaaay too soon to be texting so much (listen). She's not hot/cold, she's being normal....people need their space for a few days. You are being too clingy, so back off. Good advice. You come across as needy, clingy it'll get old very quickly. Texting can get overwhelming. Relationships if they're good are balanced @ 50/50 you go overboard it tends to chase them away. Enthusiasm is good. Too over eager is not.
Styder Posted April 17, 2017 Posted April 17, 2017 (edited) The Good News: She approached you at the bar which means your fundamentals are tight and you had a 6yr relationship so you can keep a girl happy longterm. With that said let's do an autopsy this dating cadaver: It seems she had a high level of interest in you initially which is probably why your confused as to why she's done a 180. (although I suspect you know on a subconcious level). No obivous signs of trauma. Cause of death unknown Ok making the first incision: The date went well ending in a kiss. In fact you said The date could not have gone any betterand It was beautiful and I felt amazingI suspect that you had this girl on a pedestal from the word go. You thought it was beautiful etc her experience might have been the same or it might have been "he's such a nice guy - a little too nice. Lets see what it feels like when we kiss...yep no chemistry". Something to bear in mind amigo. Women don't like floppy cocks. Now let's open up the ribcage. Hacksaw please: I messaged her that night saying thank you for the good time. I never do this. Wait for her to reach out to you. Why? Because it mysterious and takes all the fun out of it for her wondering about you when you message her. Same goes for setting the next date on the first date. She's already cooling off as she message the next day. The conversation was light and friendly all day on Wednesday. Then Thursday came along and the conversation was light but she stopped texting me after 1 p.m. Go to a mirror right now and slap yourself 10 times... Done? Ok great go back and do it again. Don't text all day... WTF buddy?! Don't you have anything else to do all day? So now she thinks that after one date your pretty much 100% hers, no challenge, have no other dating options. Even if this is not the case - this is what she fears. The next thing that crossed her mind is this guys going to be a clinger....and *poof* there goes the sexual attraction. No suprise that she stopped texting back. How did you respond to her not texting? Text MORE! Yep that sealed your fate. You waited a full 6hrs before you could'nt take it anymore and sought to get reassurance. If you'd just let it be she may have got back to you. But no. You lost your ****. Her response: To be honest, all the texting is a little much for me. It's all kind of too much too early if you know what I meanPow right in the kisser. But you've not quite got gist of 20Mw 100ft neon sign just yet. Your going back for more. You ask about your 2nd date - which at this point has been taken off the table - your just too far down the rabbit hole to read between the lines of her last message. Her response is predictable: Hey Andrew, I just got your message I'm just getting home now. Hope you had a good Easter weekend! So for tomorrow I could just say that I have a ton to do with getting organized again after being away all weekend, but I also just don't know if I really see this going anywhere romantically, I'm sorryWell that's that then. She's been patient and poilite and told you exactly where you went wrong. End of the line. But wait there more! Our man is still going. Hey Meagen my weekend was great! And that's fair I totally understand. But let me just say this and ask one question. I honestly thought we had a great date and to be honest I really felt it with you and thought you were a dream come true. Your are beautiful and have many common interests. I feel like I may have done something wrong to make you feel like this. I just want to know maybe where I went wrong or what I did not do to make you feel romantically invested in me. Be honest lol" She told you why. You took all the tension and mystery away texting too much. But you really want her to rip you to shreds? Never going to happen. She was honest and told you in a as kind of way as possible where you went wrong. Be grateful for that. She owes you nothing at this point. Best thing to do is learn from this for next time. And for the love of God delete her number. Cause of death: Excessive texting exacerbated by floppy cocking, putting her on a pedestal and ignoring social cues. Right I'm off for a G&T. Edited April 17, 2017 by Styder
Styder Posted April 17, 2017 Posted April 17, 2017 Andy's on his first date with this beautiful girl: Girl: Keep Monday free open and pencil it in Andy! Andy: Sounds good! I'm not sure if I'm free. Lets schedule it up in the week. Girl: OK (thinks: and I thought he was just another nice guy. Now I'm confused.) Later that evening Girl and friend in convo: Friend: So how'd it go? Girl: Was good - and we kissed! Friend: Oh!!! You going out again? Girl: IDK!!! He had to check his schedule Later that night: Girl thinks: He hasn't texted me yet! Why!! Didn't he like me! But we kissed. I can't take it. I'm so excited. Next Evening: Friend: Has he text you yet? Girl: No! OK I can't handle it anymore I'll say hi. That night: Girl texts: Hey Andy how's your week been? Really enjoyed our date. Andy: Hey Girl. All good thanks. Yep me too. Let's do it again. When you free next week... Girl: Wednesday Andy: Great lets meet at Smiths Bar at 7pm. See you there! Girl: Ok (he really does like me. Now I've just have to contain myself for the next 7 days. Lets text all my friends and talk about it!)
GemmaUK Posted April 17, 2017 Posted April 17, 2017 I would have thought you would have seen this coming really. In your other thread you had been way over texting her after the date and she told you so, told you to back off basically. Being all too invested and into someone before you even known them is off putting. They haven't done anything at this point in time to want nor deserve so much of your time and thoughts. Plus, she approached you which would have told you (had you read the signs) that she is happy to do her share of the chasing. Do it all yourself and you take any fun out of the early stages for her. Try not to get all so invested so quick next time but you need to move on from this one - she doesn't want to date you.
fromheart Posted April 17, 2017 Posted April 17, 2017 Texting, messaging is just for setting dates, especially at this stage. Texting her like you have been is very feminine, which is a turn off for most women. Starting to get romantic at such an early stage is also a turn off, she should be the one bringing up feelings. Even when she tells you she's not interested romantically, you text her again! To be honest that probably scared her, its getting creepy. It certainly would have pushed her away. Sorry for the direct advice her, but this woman gave you a green light and you pretty much turned it into a red one. STOP texting her and let her be. You're way off your game, youtube Corey Wayne and study!
Mkn1010 Posted April 17, 2017 Posted April 17, 2017 For what it's worth, coming from a woman, I don't think the texting killed it! She had no issue with it and seemed to be enthusiastically texting you pre the date. She wasn't feeling it as a result of the date which is very common unfortunately. But it's nothing you did. Don't resort to games, be yourself and the right person for you will love that!
Author andrewimecs Posted April 17, 2017 Author Posted April 17, 2017 Did she reply to tell you the reason? No she has not replied but I will keep you updated if she does.
Styder Posted April 17, 2017 Posted April 17, 2017 For what it's worth, coming from a woman, I don't think the texting killed it! She had no issue with it and seemed to be enthusiastically texting you pre the date.! Oh but she did though: To be honest, all the texting is a little much for me. It's all kind of too much too early if you know what I mean I know it's not what you want to hear but you've got to move on Andrew.
Author andrewimecs Posted April 17, 2017 Author Posted April 17, 2017 The Good News: She approached you at the bar which means your fundamentals are tight and you had a 6yr relationship so you can keep a girl happy longterm. With that said let's do an autopsy this dating cadaver: It seems she had a high level of interest in you initially which is probably why your confused as to why she's done a 180. (although I suspect you know on a subconcious level). No obivous signs of trauma. Cause of death unknown Ok making the first incision: The date went well ending in a kiss. In fact you said and I suspect that you had this girl on a pedestal from the word go. You thought it was beautiful etc her experience might have been the same or it might have been "he's such a nice guy - a little too nice. Lets see what it feels like when we kiss...yep no chemistry". Something to bear in mind amigo. Women don't like floppy cocks. Now let's open up the ribcage. Hacksaw please: I never do this. Wait for her to reach out to you. Why? Because it mysterious and takes all the fun out of it for her wondering about you when you message her. Same goes for setting the next date on the first date. She's already cooling off as she message the next day. Go to a mirror right now and slap yourself 10 times... Done? Ok great go back and do it again. Don't text all day... WTF buddy?! Don't you have anything else to do all day? So now she thinks that after one date your pretty much 100% hers, no challenge, have no other dating options. Even if this is not the case - this is what she fears. The next thing that crossed her mind is this guys going to be a clinger....and *poof* there goes the sexual attraction. No suprise that she stopped texting back. How did you respond to her not texting? Text MORE! Yep that sealed your fate. You waited a full 6hrs before you could'nt take it anymore and sought to get reassurance. If you'd just let it be she may have got back to you. But no. You lost your ****. Her response: Pow right in the kisser. But you've not quite got gist of 20Mw 100ft neon sign just yet. Your going back for more. You ask about your 2nd date - which at this point has been taken off the table - your just too far down the rabbit hole to read between the lines of her last message. Her response is predictable: Well that's that then. She's been patient and poilite and told you exactly where you went wrong. End of the line. But wait there more! Our man is still going. She told you why. You took all the tension and mystery away texting too much. But you really want her to rip you to shreds? Never going to happen. She was honest and told you in a as kind of way as possible where you went wrong. Be grateful for that. She owes you nothing at this point. Best thing to do is learn from this for next time. And for the love of God delete her number. Cause of death: Excessive texting exacerbated by floppy cocking, putting her on a pedestal and ignoring social cues. Right I'm off for a G&T. I realized my mistakes after the fact. I wish I kind of new how to approach the situation. I thought texting and being that nice guy would make her feel comfortable. Unfortunately modern dating entails so many other issues nowadays. I wish i had a second chance but I guess right now there will not be one. Now I know how to handle future situations and not be a clinger and take it easy. I think whats really bothering me and correct me if I am wrong. I am so stuck on it and I am not sure why. I know I got out of a 6 year relationship and that hurt a lot but this one date and thinking I had a chance with a girl I liked is bothering me a lot. Any suggestions to possibly get over this and improve my mental state. It is so tough and I keep saying to myself she was perfect and I guess that what is bothering me. Also should I try texting her later like in a week to maybe rekindle ?
Author andrewimecs Posted April 17, 2017 Author Posted April 17, 2017 Andy's on his first date with this beautiful girl: Girl: Keep Monday free open and pencil it in Andy! Andy: Sounds good! I'm not sure if I'm free. Lets schedule it up in the week. Girl: OK (thinks: and I thought he was just another nice guy. Now I'm confused.) Later that evening Girl and friend in convo: Friend: So how'd it go? Girl: Was good - and we kissed! Friend: Oh!!! You going out again? Girl: IDK!!! He had to check his schedule Later that night: Girl thinks: He hasn't texted me yet! Why!! Didn't he like me! But we kissed. I can't take it. I'm so excited. Next Evening: Friend: Has he text you yet? Girl: No! OK I can't handle it anymore I'll say hi. That night: Girl texts: Hey Andy how's your week been? Really enjoyed our date. Andy: Hey Girl. All good thanks. Yep me too. Let's do it again. When you free next week... Girl: Wednesday Andy: Great lets meet at Smiths Bar at 7pm. See you there! Girl: Ok (he really does like me. Now I've just have to contain myself for the next 7 days. Lets text all my friends and talk about it!) This is a great way to approach conversations and I guess my desperation and clinginess took over. It is very unfortunate and I guess I have to learn. Is it too late to win her back?
Styder Posted April 17, 2017 Posted April 17, 2017 Sorry if I was a little harsh on you Andrew, but I am totally empathetic to what you've experienced. Having been there myself it ain't pleasant having a girl slip through your hands. Ok lets start with the positives: 1) She approached you. That is vanishingly rare. Some guys have never been approached by a girl. Ever. Take that a a sign that your sexually attractive, look good and are approachable. (there's always room for improvement) 2) The date well enough for you guys to share a kiss. Great job on having the balls to go for it. 3) You've had a 6yr relationship so you know what it takes to keep a lady happy longterm. I struggled with this for the best part of my twenties. So you've got that valuable knowledge in the locker. Being relatively fresh out of a long term relationship your going to miss that intimate bond. Any normal, well adjusted person would. I think that desire to form a close bond again has coloured your interaction with this girl. Over texting, being a bit too eager to please, not being a mystery. It's subtle but it enough to sink attraction so soon in your relationship. What I would do now to get your self in the right head space is understand your a really awesome guy, with great friends who loves life. The kind of guy who goes to a bar and women hit on. In short your a valuable individual with or without a significant other. Your a god damn catch! Treat yourself as such. Now go out a meet some other women. If they reject you at any point it's there loss. Seriously it will be. Remember you know what it takes long term. That's the mind set you need. In regards to this particular lady your best bet would be never contact her again for any reason. Never! In any way! If your in the slightest bit tempted to talk to her DELETE her number. DO IT NOW You mention in another thread she stalks your social media. If she shes you out with another lady in a few months she might just be back in touch. It's quite possbile she never will but that's your best bet. Chances are you won't even want her to then because you've got some other lucky lady whos 100% into you and even more gorgeous. You'll be laughing at yourself that time when you were posting about it on Loveshack and thinking "Damn Andy, you've come a long way since then" Good luck and have fun buddy
Author andrewimecs Posted April 17, 2017 Author Posted April 17, 2017 Sorry if I was a little harsh on you Andrew, but I am totally empathetic to what you've experienced. Having been there myself it ain't pleasant having a girl slip through your hands. Ok lets start with the positives: 1) She approached you. That is vanishingly rare. Some guys have never been approached by a girl. Ever. Take that a a sign that your sexually attractive, look good and are approachable. (there's always room for improvement) 2) The date well enough for you guys to share a kiss. Great job on having the balls to go for it. 3) You've had a 6yr relationship so you know what it takes to keep a lady happy longterm. I struggled with this for the best part of my twenties. So you've got that valuable knowledge in the locker. Being relatively fresh out of a long term relationship your going to miss that intimate bond. Any normal, well adjusted person would. I think that desire to form a close bond again has coloured your interaction with this girl. Over texting, being a bit too eager to please, not being a mystery. It's subtle but it enough to sink attraction so soon in your relationship. What I would do now to get your self in the right head space is understand your a really awesome guy, with great friends who loves life. The kind of guy who goes to a bar and women hit on. In short your a valuable individual with or without a significant other. Your a god damn catch! Treat yourself as such. Now go out a meet some other women. If they reject you at any point it's there loss. Seriously it will be. Remember you know what it takes long term. That's the mind set you need. In regards to this particular lady your best bet would be never contact her again for any reason. Never! In any way! If your in the slightest bit tempted to talk to her DELETE her number. DO IT NOW You mention in another thread she stalks your social media. If she shes you out with another lady in a few months she might just be back in touch. It's quite possbile she never will but that's your best bet. Chances are you won't even want her to then because you've got some other lucky lady whos 100% into you and even more gorgeous. You'll be laughing at yourself that time when you were posting about it on Loveshack and thinking "Damn Andy, you've come a long way since then" Good luck and have fun buddy I would rather you be harsh because it would whip me up into shape. I appreciate your empathy as well. These are all great points. I think my biggest issue was pointed out in your third point. I am so used to being in a relationship anything that was tossed my way ended in me perceiving this as another relationship. It was too fast and too soon and I devoted myself to it because I wanted that relationship. Unfortunately not being in a relationship with that girl and treating her with that attention sen clinginesss and neediness. I have had no proper experience with modern dating and I am glad that this forum and people like you are here to straighten me out and guide me. There are a hell of a lot of good qualities about me that u mentioned but I am very humble about them. I will definitely end up with someone eventually. Maybe I need to stop looking I am not sure what i want but what i am sure of is that i want to be loved and I am not sure if that was because I was in such long relationship previously. Maybe I just need some time to slowly ease into it. I am definitely glad that I can learn from this and treat my next situation properly if it ever comes to that. Who knows maybe there will be a girl that wants to be smothered. Another issue I am dealing with is being in my 20's I think of the future. I am not sure I want to get married after 30. It is weird because my last relationship I thought she was the one but I got cheated on and she lost attraction to me. I am worried I am forever going to be worried and paranoid about future relationships. Being so devastated and being in a relationship for so long you realize can you really trust your loved ones. I am extremely confused and not sure what i want I also do not know how to figure that out. I do not know if I should go on dates or just screw around. I want to find a partner eventually of course but I am such a lost soul and do not want to be hurt anymore. Breaking up with that 6 year relationship was a pivotal moment in my life and destroyed me. Going on this first date with Meagan was amazing and felt so real and good but now I got let down again. I am so vulnerable and i hate it. Any suggestions?
MoreThanThat Posted April 17, 2017 Posted April 17, 2017 From what you wrote, this was your first date since your relationship ended? If so, I think it's unrealistic to expect the first person would turn into a relationship, never mind marriage. There are a lot of awesome, single people out there. Move on. 1
Miss Spider Posted April 17, 2017 Posted April 17, 2017 I agree with the other woman who said she's just not into you. I hate texting, but if a guy I'm really into is texting me too much, it's not going to kill it. It would take multitudes of drive space killing texts and several interrupting phone calls for it to stop being cute. 2
berry1 Posted April 17, 2017 Posted April 17, 2017 Texting, messaging is just for setting dates, especially at this stage. ! Really? Is this really a turn off? i have been dating a girl for 2 months and we do text most of the day just about our general day to day life. I realized my mistakes after the fact. I wish I kind of new how to approach the situation. I thought texting and being that nice guy would make her feel comfortable. Unfortunately modern dating entails so many other issues nowadays. I wish i had a second chance but I guess right now there will not be one. Now I know how to handle future situations and not be a clinger and take it easy. I think whats really bothering me and correct me if I am wrong. I am so stuck on it and I am not sure why. I know I got out of a 6 year relationship and that hurt a lot but this one date and thinking I had a chance with a girl I liked is bothering me a lot. Any suggestions to possibly get over this and improve my mental state. It is so tough and I keep saying to myself she was perfect and I guess that what is bothering me. Also should I try texting her later like in a week to maybe rekindle ? Andrew i have been in a very similar situation to you and from my experience i would say the way you are feeling is because you have come out of a long term relationship just 4 months ago. It took me over a year before i could even bare the thought of showing interest in women after my breakup so you are definitely doing well starting dating again so quick. Just remember that everything will be confusing and heightened. About the current girl i would say you are wasting your time pursuing her any further. Once a woman makes her mind up so early you don't have a chance at changing it. This is why i am practically asking advice on here when we get to each stage with the girl i am dating now because i know that if i mess it up its extremely unlikely to get them back interested. Continue the search mate, if you feel that you need to meet someone new and that dating is helping you get back to normal then continue. I just would not set yourself so high goals, take it all as it comes for now. 1
Author andrewimecs Posted April 17, 2017 Author Posted April 17, 2017 Really? Is this really a turn off? i have been dating a girl for 2 months and we do text most of the day just about our general day to day life. Andrew i have been in a very similar situation to you and from my experience i would say the way you are feeling is because you have come out of a long term relationship just 4 months ago. It took me over a year before i could even bare the thought of showing interest in women after my breakup so you are definitely doing well starting dating again so quick. Just remember that everything will be confusing and heightened. About the current girl i would say you are wasting your time pursuing her any further. Once a woman makes her mind up so early you don't have a chance at changing it. This is why i am practically asking advice on here when we get to each stage with the girl i am dating now because i know that if i mess it up its extremely unlikely to get them back interested. Continue the search mate, if you feel that you need to meet someone new and that dating is helping you get back to normal then continue. I just would not set yourself so high goals, take it all as it comes for now. Thank you I appreciate that! Slowly but surely I guess I just need to be patient and I will find someone eventually and try new girls. 1
Mkn1010 Posted April 18, 2017 Posted April 18, 2017 Andy's on his first date with this beautiful girl: Girl: Keep Monday free open and pencil it in Andy! Andy: Sounds good! I'm not sure if I'm free. Lets schedule it up in the week. Girl: OK (thinks: and I thought he was just another nice guy. Now I'm confused.) Later that evening Girl and friend in convo: Friend: So how'd it go? Girl: Was good - and we kissed! Friend: Oh!!! You going out again? Girl: IDK!!! He had to check his schedule Later that night: Girl thinks: He hasn't texted me yet! Why!! Didn't he like me! But we kissed. I can't take it. I'm so excited. Next Evening: Friend: Has he text you yet? Girl: No! OK I can't handle it anymore I'll say hi. That night: Girl texts: Hey Andy how's your week been? Really enjoyed our date. Andy: Hey Girl. All good thanks. Yep me too. Let's do it again. When you free next week... Girl: Wednesday Andy: Great lets meet at Smiths Bar at 7pm. See you there! Girl: Ok (he really does like me. Now I've just have to contain myself for the next 7 days. Lets text all my friends and talk about it!) I would never bother with a guy who communicated with me like the above, ain't nobody got time for that :/ 1
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