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4th time this year, I'm dateless on a Saturday. I did have a date Friday, but she was packing (and eating!) mace. I decided not to proceed further with her.

 

Anyhow... It's only April and I've already tied my 2016 record of 4 dateless Saturdays. It's shaping up to be a very slow year. I hope its only that, and not the beginning of a dateless rest of my life.

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Did I read that correctly or is it satire, pal ?

 

4th dateless Saturday of the year? I've gone years and hundred days without dates.

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4th time this year, I'm dateless on a Saturday. I did have a date Friday, but she was packing (and eating!) mace. I decided not to proceed further with her.

 

Anyhow... It's only April and I've already tied my 2016 record of 4 dateless Saturdays. It's shaping up to be a very slow year. I hope its only that, and not the beginning of a dateless rest of my life.

 

I don't even think like this because there are friday/saturday's I choose and reject women to not go out

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So how many different women do you date in a year goldpile?

 

No one wants a repeat date this weekend?

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I actually have a date tonight, in half an hour :)

 

First one in a month. It should be good!

 

So, do you date a different woman every weekend? Why hasn't a woman wanted a second date with you? I'm concerned about you.....

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4th time this year, I'm dateless on a Saturday. I did have a date Friday, but she was packing (and eating!) mace. I decided not to proceed further with her.

 

Anyhow... It's only April and I've already tied my 2016 record of 4 dateless Saturdays. It's shaping up to be a very slow year. I hope its only that, and not the beginning of a dateless rest of my life.

 

There is something seriously wrong with you or your approach.

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So how many different women do you date in a year goldpile?

 

No one wants a repeat date this weekend?

. I'm big on repeats, but no takers this time.
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I'm married - if I don't have a date with my wife on a Saturday night, I'll call a friend.

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. I'm big on repeats, but no takers this time.

 

So, if you have someone lined up to take out on a date 48 weeks a year. How many women a year do you date?

 

None want you to take them out Saturday - surely you show them all such an amazing time that they are lining up at your doorstep.

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You're put off by a bit of mace? You need to harden up.

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So, if you have someone lined up to take out on a date 48 weeks a year. How many women a year do you date?

 

None want you to take them out Saturday - surely you show them all such an amazing time that they are lining up at your doorstep.

 

LOL RC. It depends, sometimes one or 2 women will keep me busy for months. Other times its a real numbers game. I usually do get repeats via the good times I show them. Women who just want to have fun will stick with me. Those seeking deeper relationships will usually fall away after a month or 2.

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I date like a mad person. I wouldnt be surprised if Ive dated 150 different people in the last two years. Have many times had dates with two different people in one day. But I think Id drive myself crazy to think like youre thinking. Im sure Ive had many saturday nights with no date. Who cares?! Do something fun with yourself or lay around doing nothing.

 

If I wasnt working tonight, Id seriously be scrubbing my tub and changing the shower curtain. Its been weighing on me lately.

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This is only your 4th Saturday without a date? You're seriously complaining about that? Not that I'm trying to get a date on a Saturday, I'm in grad school, I haven't had a date on a Saturday in a long time. Who cares, enjoy your time to yourself. The way I see it, if I have to be single, I'm a pretty cool person to be single with. ;)

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LOL RC. It depends, sometimes one or 2 women will keep me busy for months. Other times its a real numbers game. I usually do get repeats via the good times I show them. Women who just want to have fun will stick with me. Those seeking deeper relationships will usually fall away after a month or 2.

 

I hope you don't lead them on to think you want something serious when you don't. What goes around, comes around.

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Did I read that correctly or is it satire, pal ?

 

4th dateless Saturday of the year? I've gone years and hundred days without dates.

 

 

Fk yeah that's what l was thinking, me too. Even back in my 20s.

Holy crap

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Another saturday night and i aint got nobody

I got some money

I can just get laid

How I wish I had someone to talk to

one that dresses as a maid (french)

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I also have no plans this Saturday, the first in a month, but it recently was all parties and a wedding. I don't date much, but that's by choice, as friends are largely what matters in my life.

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Don't think I'd even want a date every saturday. Especially if there were some other days of the week. That's just too much to deal with.

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Isnt it Friday????

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I hope you don't lead them on to think you want something serious when you don't. What goes around, comes around.

Nah, I'm not mean. I'm pretty honest. I will sometimes allow that she could be the one that clicks. But that's still honest because I have an open mind.

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Isnt it Friday????
yup, it sure feels like a Saturday doesn't it? No matter, fact is I don't have a date lined up for Saturday. I suppose I could still get lucky, but I doubt it.
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Cripes...31 likes on this thread and not one for the original poster.

 

Does anyone know how a man can hurt, hurt on the inside? :(

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yup, it sure feels like a Saturday doesn't it? No matter, fact is I don't have a date lined up for Saturday. I suppose I could still get lucky, but I doubt it.

 

Cripes...31 likes on this thread and not one for the original poster.

 

Does anyone know how a man can hurt, hurt on the inside? :(

 

Lol I think you'll be ok gold ;)

 

If this is only the 4th Saturday you've had without a date planned then you're doing better than most of us (including me!) :lmao:

 

One of my girl friends suggested I just go on as many dates as I can with any guy...even if I'm not interested. I dont really like to invest in people I feel 'meh' about...not even one date. So I dont have dates lined up until I feel like I could like the person...since I'm picky that doesnt happen all the time

 

I'd rather hang out with friends and drink prosseco than go out with a guy I'm not feeling *wine emoji*

 

What is your end goal with dating???

 

Why focus on the number of dates rather than the person you're dating? :cool:

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Lol I think you'll be ok gold ;)

 

If this is only the 4th Saturday you've had without a date planned then you're doing better than most of us (including me!) :lmao:

 

One of my girl friends suggested I just go on as many dates as I can with any guy...even if I'm not interested. I dont really like to invest in people I feel 'meh' about...not even one date. So I dont have dates lined up until I feel like I could like the person...since I'm picky that doesnt happen all the time

 

I'd rather hang out with friends and drink prosseco than go out with a guy I'm not feeling *wine emoji*

 

What is your end goal with dating???

 

Why focus on the number of dates rather than the person you're dating? :cool:

You are of course classy enough to have standards and goals. I have standards as far as women that I become serious about. But these are quite special ladies that make me consider commitment. But mostly I'm only looking for fun times.

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4th time this year, I'm dateless on a Saturday. I did have a date Friday, but she was packing (and eating!) mace. I decided not to proceed further with her.

 

Anyhow... It's only April and I've already tied my 2016 record of 4 dateless Saturdays. It's shaping up to be a very slow year. I hope its only that, and not the beginning of a dateless rest of my life.

 

That's actually a pretty impressive record. I too have been on many dates this year, def more than I can count. This week is the 16th week of 2017, so that means you've had probably over 20 dates if you have roughly 1-2 per week.

 

I think I've been on about 15 or so since the year started, but I'm not lucky enough to get every week nailed down. It's very streaky for me. I have weeks where I have like 2-4 dates--one week even had Thurs-Sun, a different date each day. But then I have weeks where it's totally dry and not even one girl in sight--nothing on the apps, none talking to me via text, none that I meet in person etc. It's weird. It's like binge dating for me.

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