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I read once that she is bipolar but she could be borderline.

 

she used to invite me out to her events in town but stopped after i didnt go twice. (I had school.)

 

I have been lingering on her Twitter account but we have never met in person. i didnt want to scare her away but she is very, very attractive and has many men after her! i'm 34 and she is 28.

 

i asked her when she would be in town next and she said later this month. i told her i'd be there and she Liked it. i have apologized for not meeting her 1-3 years ago when she had invited me out. i told her i'd defintely be at her event and she said that was awesome. she doesn'y ask me questions so i'm not sure if she is interested anymore? I said i was looking forward to meeting her.

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Are you sure she's just asking you out? She's attractive and have any men after her, on her twitter account? She might be a saleswoman? If she's a saleswoman, then the 1st 2 times she asked you out doesn't count.

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I read once that she is bipolar but she could be borderline.

 

she used to invite me out to her events in town but stopped after i didnt go twice. (I had school.)

 

I have been lingering on her Twitter account but we have never met in person. i didnt want to scare her away but she is very, very attractive and has many men after her! i'm 34 and she is 28.

 

i asked her when she would be in town next and she said later this month. i told her i'd be there and she Liked it. i have apologized for not meeting her 1-3 years ago when she had invited me out. i told her i'd defintely be at her event and she said that was awesome. she doesn'y ask me questions so i'm not sure if she is interested anymore? I said i was looking forward to meeting her.

 

Just don't buy anything from her if she pushing that into your face. If she doesn't try to sell you on anything then you know she's really into you. Good luck!

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Not enough information provided to form an opinion. Go to the event, interact with her, and report back.

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If she has men hovering around her, she's not going to make any effort...why? because she doesn't have to. I feel she likes having orbiters...and what's wrong with having another one to her collection. This is what it's going to be like unless you can stand out from the crowd.

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Sounds like she was just being friendly.

 

As mentioned before, go to the event, hang out and socialize with her. If she's into you, you'll know it.

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Not enough information provided to form an opinion. Go to the event, interact with her, and report back.

 

Yeah. That's what I felt. She invited me out before but that was such a long time ago that I am not sure if she would be interested in hanging out!

 

I feel like she was being friendly but there's too little to know.

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I would be interested in hearing what others thought about what went down.

 

My buddy who said he would "be there" and really hyped up helping me never showed. I really let him know how ****ty that was. I showed up at the end of the second girl's act and just managed to catch the girl I liked for the entire set.

 

Anyways.. showed up, it was kind of awkward being a lone wolf and been a long time since I had to fly solo. I started to chat up people, build up value after getting in crappy. Talked to 3 or four people for a few minutes. I felt really awkward so I am sure it was kind of amplified a bit -- the one guy in the room that knew no one and the music was too loud to hear 100% of what people were saying.

 

I saw her act, she might have seen me in the crowd. I walked up to her tarot booth after talking to people, excusing myself because I told a different girl that I have wanted to meet this girl for 2-3 years. She understood and said, '2 or 3 years?? Definitely! Go and talk to her!' (I think)

 

She recognized me. I kind of stand-out with Adidas jacket, my blonde hair and blue eyes in a sea of people dressed more casually in semi-dress clothes. I like the athletic-sporty look. It suits my solid frame.

 

She was very smiley, lots of great eye contact, lots of smiles, ... think she even touched my hand when she was doing my tarot reading. I picked out a Sword, Hazard and one other card. It was loud but she said I had something I needed to resolve, which definitely didn't seem promising! I joked/flirted that maybe I needed to meet her after so many years of missing her 1-2 events she invited me to?? She thought that was genuinely funny and cute.

 

I must have escalated too quickly because I moved behind the counter because the music was too loud. She broke the conversation and said she wanted to watch the show kind of worriedly after I started talking to her about her pet snake and taming it. I thought, 'oh ****, I am creeping by accident.' So I apologized and said it was great to meet her and walked away to watch the show. I felt kind of lame because I had given all of my loose change to the girl passing by so I looked like a cheap-skate even though I had donated. After a few more performers, I was pretty tired and knew I needed to leave. I worked out earlier that day and was annoyed that I hadn't tried to get the number.

 

I didn't have any change so I got out a $20 and walked back over to her. Another guy was there so I just waited for a second and I guess he finished his tarot reading and I said something like, 'Hey, I got some cash out for the donation.' Gave her the $ 10 and she was blown away. You could really see her eyes and whole body be shocked that someone was donating that much. She really appreciated it. She asked if I was leaving.. I said yes...but I said that I'd wanted to stay in touch.

 

I asked,'I have to go but I'd like to catch up later. Do you have a phone number?'

 

She then said,'I don't give out my number.'

 

I didn't want to leave a ****ty impression because she is on my Facebook and is well known in my hometown and beyond. I figured there was no point in being an ass.

 

She must have seen my disappointment on my face and i said,'I understand. Well, it was nice meeting you regardless.'

 

At this point she gave me a light hug over the counter-top, so i patted her back lightly. My back is rock solid so girls usually love getting hugs from me.

 

After I said, 'If you change your mind then you know how to reach me. (Smiles)"

 

I think she wasn't expecting the classy way of handling it. I later sent her a message wishing her a good night with a smiley over Facebook, which she read and did not respond to. She did not remove me from Facebook and, after years of self-control, I kept her on mine too.

 

I know her birthday is in a month but I don't think I will get an invite to it. She knows a lot of people and is definitely a 8.5/10 IMO. She could have almost any guy but is somehow single...

 

My buddy told me the other day that he knows a local burlesque dancer who sleeps with a few men and women...

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