Timpye Posted April 13, 2017 Posted April 13, 2017 If they broke up with you... This is the mind set you guys need to attain. Am I any chance to get her/him back?? ZERO Is she/he any chance to get me back?? SLIM Don't put them on a pedestal, don't sell yourself short, don't overanalyse, don't beat yourself up, don't have regrets. Most importantly don't chase, they are not the one that got away, they are the ones that let YOU get away. Focus on yourself, make yourself an ever better, sexier version of the amazing self you already are. If you are to get back together they are going to have to work fkn hard for it because YOU deserve it. Stay strong everyone xx 6
Gene Clark Posted April 13, 2017 Posted April 13, 2017 (edited) If they broke up with you... This is the mind set you guys need to attain. Am I any chance to get her/him back?? ZERO Is she/he any chance to get me back?? SLIM Don't put them on a pedestal, don't sell yourself short, don't overanalyse, don't beat yourself up, don't have regrets. Most importantly don't chase, they are not the one that got away, they are the ones that let YOU get away. Focus on yourself, make yourself an ever better, sexier version of the amazing self you already are. If you are to get back together they are going to have to work fkn hard for it because YOU deserve it. Stay strong everyone xx ...sigh...why do I still get the overwhelming feeling that it was all my fault, in spite of knowing that it's simply not true? She took me for granted, I know it... I have things to learn like everybody else and so does she. She made me feel as if I was the broken part of our relationship, she was leaving because I was too much trouble. The feeling of abandonment is one I've been dealing with for the better half of my life...I don't know what it is to have someone stick it out with you when the going gets tough. God knows, I wanted her to be that person because I was willing to be there for her. She hasn't said a word to me since we split...we're in NC since mid February...it's so bizarre how things change so quickly, how it all fell apart like it was nothing...like it meant nothing. In the very least I wanted to know that it meant something...but no, I can't count on that. I still feel betrayed, like I was used and cast aside, like I'm disposable. What authority does she have to make me feel this way? Edited April 13, 2017 by Gene Clark
breadbin Posted April 13, 2017 Posted April 13, 2017 it's never just one persons fault, well very rarely! I can relate to this feeling that i'm to blame because my ex told me it was all my fault. She gave me a list of things I had to change about myself. She expected me to change 'everything about myself' - her words. If I had any self respect I would have told her to f*** off. I didn't, I tried to change for her and it didn't last. I'm changing now but she is not in the picture, I'm changing now for me. And good riddance to her, if I wasn't good enough back then well her loss. 1
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