minou23 Posted April 12, 2017 Posted April 12, 2017 Ok... So I find that I get hit on most by a certain ethnic group that I do not belong to. This doesn't bother me at all one bit as I'm also typically attracted to their look. And I've dated a lot of them, but I don't get hit on by other people, or if I do it's an anomaly lol. Also, most of these relationships didn't work out and I don't know if the different backgrounds had to do with it. Anyway I wouldn't mind a little variety now. I also wonder what about me makes them so attracted to me? I know their background is a little more conservative and I'm definitely not. But it's not like you can tell just by looking at me. If it matters, people tell me all the time that I look Russian, which I am by blood. But I'm American and it's normal to be in a "mixed" couple. Do any of you experience something like this? Why do you think it is? I had a friend that once said that the only guys that hit on her are black men. And when we went out to bars and such it was true! Maybe it's all coincidental? Have you had much success dating different ethnic groups or one particular group?
CptInsano Posted April 12, 2017 Posted April 12, 2017 Do any of you experience something like this? Why do you think it is? I had a friend that once said that the only guys that hit on her are black men. And when we went out to bars and such it was true! Maybe it's all coincidental? Have you had much success dating different ethnic groups or one particular group? Yes, I've had that experience, but it is not limited to a particular ethnic group. I think it has a lot to do with your own experience and that you react positively, maybe even without being aware. Other people may see somebody very different from themselves, sonebody very distant, whereas you see an attractiveness that reminds you of a former lover. That has to reflect how you approach members of a particular ethnic group. 1
Tressugar Posted April 12, 2017 Posted April 12, 2017 All the time. I attract mostly Latinos...Don't know why. I'm not offended. I'm flattered. Mostly accused of being Latina myself, but far from it. I usually counter this typecast by surrounding myself in different ethnic enclaves. Sometimes it works, other times it doesn't. Hardly ever attract my race for strange reason. I have a multi ethnic look and most ppl can't categorize me to their level of comfort. So it's a free for all pretty much with my dating pool. Just roll with the flow. It could be a lot worse.... 1
Gaeta Posted April 12, 2017 Posted April 12, 2017 I am a white female and attract often black and hispanic men. I think (and was told) it's because of my jessica-rabbit body shape. 1
curiouslysearching Posted April 12, 2017 Posted April 12, 2017 I have never dated outside of my race (white/blonde headed) simply because of my personal preferences but do not see anything wrong with it at all. I think the important factor is the PERSON and do you enjoy them both on the inside as well as the outside
GunslingerRoland Posted April 12, 2017 Posted April 12, 2017 My wife (white) has always had a big booty and been hit on disproportionately by black men since she was a teenager. It's always just been a big of a running joke for us. 1
Lilyana76 Posted April 12, 2017 Posted April 12, 2017 I'm 5'1" and blonde, not skinny but not overweight either. I get hit on a lot by black males. But I have never dated one. That's mostly because they don't ask me out, they just make comments, or call me "beautiful" or "gorgeous" all the time. If one asked me out I wouldn't say no. But I tend to date more white males.... because... well... they ask lol 1
normal person Posted April 12, 2017 Posted April 12, 2017 I get a disproportionate amount of attention from Jewish girls, Asian girls, and oddly, gay men. I couldn't tell you why. I'm sure part of it is demographics, I live in a city with high concentrations of those groups, but it doesn't really explain the disproportion to all the others. I'd venture a guess about the genetics behind it but it'd only be speculation. A quick internet search doesn't yield much explanation either, but it's something I've always wondered myself.
Author minou23 Posted April 13, 2017 Author Posted April 13, 2017 I get a disproportionate amount of attention from Jewish girls, Asian girls, and oddly, gay men. I couldn't tell you why. I'm sure part of it is demographics, I live in a city with high concentrations of those groups, but it doesn't really explain the disproportion to all the others. I'd venture a guess about the genetics behind it but it'd only be speculation. A quick internet search doesn't yield much explanation either, but it's something I've always wondered myself. Are you Jewish or do you look like you could be? I'm also Jewish and I know a lot of Jewish men that like Asian women (that I don't know why). And Jewish women love Jewish men. I love Jewish men and the reason is they're usually really good to their women because they're used to being nagged at by their moms lol so if an Asian woman gets hit on by Jewish men a lot and they were positive experiences then I can see why she would be attracted to them. Which is why I'm also attracted to them. My ex bf is Jewish and he was great. but he's pretty much the only guy within my same ethnic group I've dated. I don't care about the race or ethnicity of who I date I just want a nice guy and I feel like I keep attracting spoiled jerks. Meh.
Author minou23 Posted April 13, 2017 Author Posted April 13, 2017 My wife (white) has always had a big booty and been hit on disproportionately by black men since she was a teenager. It's always just been a big of a running joke for us. Hahaha! I love that black men appreciate curves
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