loveshark111 Posted April 11, 2017 Posted April 11, 2017 Hello, my gf just broke up with me. She said im very jealous, possesive and that we dont fit together. She said at the beginning i was very relaxed with everything but now im not anymore, always controlling. We had two fights in 2 night outs, because i was jeaulous in the first, of her talking to strangers guys in the club, and i even had to stop her from talking to a guy drying his hands in the toilet. The second she was annoyed and was ignoring me so i was puting me in front of other guys next to her. All of this happened in 3 months span, before that only some fights about questions over the phone. i told her i would never do the same and i recognized my mistakes , and we kind of solved the problem at the moment but since we are in a long distance relationship for a year now and i only see her 1 time a month she says her feelings have changed. She also pointed its very hard for her to see me only once a month. What do you think its the reason?
Redhead14 Posted April 11, 2017 Posted April 11, 2017 Hello, my gf just broke up with me. She said im very jealous, possesive and that we dont fit together. She said at the beginning i was very relaxed with everything but now im not anymore, always controlling. We had two fights in 2 night outs, because i was jeaulous in the first, of her talking to strangers guys in the club, and i even had to stop her from talking to a guy drying his hands in the toilet. The second she was annoyed and was ignoring me so i was puting me in front of other guys next to her. All of this happened in 3 months span, before that only some fights about questions over the phone. i told her i would never do the same and i recognized my mistakes , and we kind of solved the problem at the moment but since we are in a long distance relationship for a year now and i only see her 1 time a month she says her feelings have changed. She also pointed its very hard for her to see me only once a month. What do you think its the reason? What do you think its the reason? 1) im very jealous, possesive and that we dont fit together 2) its very hard for her to see me only once a month. 3) she says her feelings have changed She was pretty specific . . . what else do you need to hear?
Author loveshark111 Posted April 11, 2017 Author Posted April 11, 2017 What do you think its the reason? 1) im very jealous, possesive and that we dont fit together 2) its very hard for her to see me only once a month. 3) she says her feelings have changed She was pretty specific . . . what else do you need to hear? I know, but i will move to her country in 4 months to work. I also changed my attitude. Was what i did so wrong that hurt her so much that she changed completly? She used to be very nice, but in the last times was acting distant and cold, why she just dont want to start fresh? Is it possible she has eyes on someone? And she kept texting at night all the time with heart stickers, gifs....
Whodatdog Posted April 11, 2017 Posted April 11, 2017 She's telling you the reason. Why arent you listening?
Author loveshark111 Posted April 11, 2017 Author Posted April 11, 2017 She's telling you the reason. Why arent you listening? yes, but if she really loved me she would be able to move forward and start fresh
Redhead14 Posted April 13, 2017 Posted April 13, 2017 yes, but if she really loved me she would be able to move forward and start fresh but if she really loved me -- That's the problem, she doesn't. If she didn't she wouldn't have ended the relationship . . .
jorgeg3d Posted April 13, 2017 Posted April 13, 2017 Little jealousy is ok, it shows you care. But you can't take it the overbearing level either. Bottom line, she's not that into you and thats probably an excuse to let you go. Women will do that instead of just saying the truth. Don't start begging her back or it will only get worse for you.
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