Author Apple1977 Posted April 11, 2017 Author Posted April 11, 2017 Dumped by text after 3 years .... and she is the one who cheated on me multiple times ... just thought id share that slice of the best information a guy could ever share
Telemachus Posted April 11, 2017 Posted April 11, 2017 I've never known someone to be dumped by text who didn't regularly exchange text messages during the relationship with the person who just did the text-dumping. Live by text, and you have a much better chance of having some connection or other ended by text. I don't carry a phone regularly, and I may be dumped several more times in my life, but it won't be by text message. I heard of a company that required its employees to carry their phones at all times, and guess how the company notified employees that they were being laid off? Yes, by text message. Put your phone in a drawer, and don't make text-messaging part of your next relationship, and you won't be dumped by text. 2
Author Apple1977 Posted April 11, 2017 Author Posted April 11, 2017 thanks for the advice ... but text was the best method of communication for us as she works at sea 4000 miles away and cell signals don't really exist unless your in port
Author Apple1977 Posted April 15, 2017 Author Posted April 15, 2017 So bit of a turn around .. girlfriend has sort of come back but without the committed side as of yet. She's been here stayed over we had sex 3 times in 1 day she stayed the night, we cryed cuddled chatted held each other tight all night kissed the lot ??? What do you think ??
BluesPower Posted April 15, 2017 Posted April 15, 2017 Are you kidding??? Why are you doing this to yourself? Why. You know who she is and what she is. At this point you get what you deserve, good luck
PLT Posted April 15, 2017 Posted April 15, 2017 After reading this whole thread I can't believe you have gone back for more. You are going to get hurt again. Enjoy being her doormat and backup option. You need to work on your self respect. Sorry to be harsh. I've been where you are to a degree (mine didn't cheat but was abusive which is just as bad in my opinion as it boils down to trust in both cases) and you know what happened? I spent 3 months tripping over myself trying to please her and then she dumped me in an even crueller way than she had the previous time. She threatened you with police,said you were harassing her, and then had sex with you. She is playing you like the proverbial violin my friend. You have a long road ahead. Best of luck. 1
Author Apple1977 Posted April 17, 2017 Author Posted April 17, 2017 You guys are right .. I know this but she's been here acting like everything normal kissing loving like nothing ever happened. I am gutted though because tomorrow she leaves For study's again for 14 weeks. Usually I go with her for the duration and that's our time to be close, only this time she hast took me but knows I wish I could be there. I think her words were let's not get ahead of ourselfs and see how things go. She even came round with Easter eggs yestoday for me and we had a cooked dinner and things. The thing is we sat on the sofa cuddling and things in front of my parents ? Does this mean she genuine or she's playing us all ??? I'm well confused ? Yet she still has not said let's try again yet? Unless this here way of trying and going slow. Everything seems to be there still kissing cuddling sex sleeping in the same bed crying with each other fun happiness. Am I insane I really don't know what's going on any help please or advice what to watch for ? Do I give it a time limit before I say enough is enough? Considering I've waited 8 weeks already ??
Author Apple1977 Posted April 18, 2017 Author Posted April 18, 2017 Can anyone help me please ?? When a partner says can you give me time and don't push me what exactly does this mean and how long is time ? Partnership of3 years she cheated I forgave .. then she dumped me 4 weeks later .. but she says don't push me ?? I've already waited a few months for her what should I do any advice ?
Ronnys93 Posted April 18, 2017 Posted April 18, 2017 Can anyone help me please ?? When a partner says can you give me time and don't push me what exactly does this mean and how long is time ? Partnership of3 years she cheated I forgave .. then she dumped me 4 weeks later .. but she says don't push me ?? I've already waited a few months for her what should I do any advice ? Give her time means let HER come back to you.
keiji Posted April 18, 2017 Posted April 18, 2017 Can anyone help me please ?? When a partner says can you give me time and don't push me what exactly does this mean and how long is time ? Partnership of3 years she cheated I forgave .. then she dumped me 4 weeks later .. but she says don't push me ?? I've already waited a few months for her what should I do any advice ? Well, my advice is that you gather any self-respect you have left and refuse to be with a cheater who on top of that is playing games. She's doing all this to you because she knows she can.
Author Apple1977 Posted April 22, 2017 Author Posted April 22, 2017 yup she's a not a nice person ... I feel so abused and destroyed as a person inside I don't know how to recover
Author Apple1977 Posted April 27, 2017 Author Posted April 27, 2017 totally ghosted for a week now haha amazing
Author Apple1977 Posted May 7, 2017 Author Posted May 7, 2017 so my ex partner came back after a few months hung around for 3 days then broke it off again via text again and then i havent heared from her for 10 days. shes blocked me on texts and my crys for help via e mail go un heared ?? what is this ??
d0nnivain Posted May 7, 2017 Posted May 7, 2017 This is her way of expressing her desire to remain broken up. Leave her be & don't fall for her breadcrumbs again.
preraph Posted May 7, 2017 Posted May 7, 2017 You say cries for help. Is there any chance she heard you were in a bad way and was doing a wellness check? Anyway, I'm sorry she just got you upset and confused again, and I hope you're okay and can move on. Be sure and make yourself get out and go do things you really love to do, even if it's by yourself, but with friends/family when possible.
Author Apple1977 Posted May 7, 2017 Author Posted May 7, 2017 ok .. yeah my cry for help where more of acts of love and asking to meet and see each other via e mail as I'm blocked on texts I can accept its over allthough she siad that 3 weeks ago and came back but im struggling with the no conatct and when i ask shall i move on are we over are we going to work on things ive had nothing
Author Apple1977 Posted July 21, 2017 Author Posted July 21, 2017 Still awaiting the girl I spent 3 years with to return been subject to e mail contact only for the past 7 weeks what am I doing
preraph Posted July 21, 2017 Posted July 21, 2017 Sounds like you just need to accept that it is over. Women will usually blitz you with communication if they're still interested. But many women will feel bad for just totally abandoning you and will just be a friend, which isn't what you want. I strongly urge you to start staying busy socially and not always be available to her. Not to get her back but to move on. Good luck.
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