Chilli Posted April 12, 2017 Posted April 12, 2017 (edited) l dunno. l don't think it's looks either. And you sound like a great chick with a really down to earth personality . To me that's a huge thing about a girl,love it. You also sound like a very aware type of person , with all sorts of things, love that to in a girl , so many out there wouldn't know their own ass if it was on fire believe me. Turns me right off. But yknow , all this look stuff , all over the internet, suchhhhhhh bullsh@t. lt reminds me of the making a girl laugh fad , suddenly every guy out there for the first time in 2000 yrs, thinks he has to be a clown to get a chick. Total effg bs. What , suddenly after 2000 yrs you gotta be funny to get a girl , and have to do the rest of the lists all over the internet everywhere you look too. Bullsh@t. If we click sure we might laugh a lot or a little or a but - so effg what, You think that's all there is too it, confidence and being funny- yeah , and pigs fly too. Well, it's the same with all this looks thing. Suddenly everyone out there thinks everyones gotta be a 10. Are all the women looking for 10's , 10's themselves, ahhh, NOPE.Farrrrr from it. 80% would be lucky to be 6. And this abbs bullsh@t, so what , suddenly all the women out there have abbs themselves so they have the right to only except a guy with a perfect body - bullsh@t. 80% of women are over weight at least a bit, most much more than a bit, same with guys. Same with looks , same with everything. Go into any mall and people watch. What every happy couple or married for 30yrs are 10s and he makes her laugh and she looks like Monroe. Ummm, nope, load of total bullsh@t, total la la land. Maybe 5% if that but you know what , the rest are just human, ordinary people , of all shapes and sizes and looks, just being themselves and happy. Tall short fat skinny not bad looking not a looker at all, you name it and with every personality type ever invented. The whole box of rocks, that's reality. 90% of them, go watch, hell take a calculator,do the maths. There's someone for everyone , thats' life , RL. that's reality. looks , personality , don;t have any pattern or secret recipe because you know what, everyone is different, just human, just themselves , just whoever and whatever they are. That's reality. We click and fall for whoever. And don't worry about everyone else you know that seem to be out dating dating or beating them off , the brightest flame burns quickest, remember. And at least 50% of them will end up just as fkd up as anyone else in the end or on here in 20yrs time still talking about dating. Happens alllllll the time, especially with the girls that seem to be beating them off with sticks all the time. Yknow , quite often in life and you see it all the time, the least popular ones just turn around one day and meet the real thing and ride of into the sunset, happens all the time. So , try not to worry or let it stress you out, just go sit in a mall and look at real life , real people,real couples "reality", for a few hours. It'll make you feel better and realize internet is not reality, very little in fact. Your time will come, your real, that's pretty obvious and real wins every time, you'll see. Meantime hang in there eh, enjoy life. Edited April 12, 2017 by Chilli
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