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girl meets boys no sparks question?


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ok.. im just musing here and curious..

 

say you meet someone that you click with on a level of

 

1. understanding

2. similarities

3. like/dislikes

 

but.. you dont feel a "Spark" or "Click" with that person on a physical level..

 

my question is..

 

will spending more time with someone allow you to develop that click? and

can you fall in love with this person eventually?

 

in other word girl/boy meets ideal girl/boy but doesn't feel that spark.. does that spark take time to develop?

 

been having this conversation with a friend of mines and we disagree..lol so curious on the concensus

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My experience is yes the physical attraction can and often does develop over time. In fact when I first met my boyfriend - I had no interest in him whatsoever. Over a year later - we are going strong.

 

Despite my inital reservations - he was a GREAT kisser - and the rest works great between us too! :p

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I think attraction can grow if you give it time and you are open to it. With alot of people if there is no initial attraction then there is no interest. You have to be open to meeting people and giving them a chance to start that spark you are talking about.

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