As if I need this crap... an ex from a long long time ago just rang me.

[katty]

He has called before, this is an ex bf that I dated years and years ago, matter of fact he was the first guy I dated when I left my abusive marriage, he was also the first guy to give me an orgasm so hell yeah I thought he was the man. Seriously my exhusband was my first love and so I didn't experience real sex until after my seperation. Anyway I am getting side tracked, long ago ex boyfriend called to tell me he would always love me, that I was the only woman that he could honestly say he loved completely and would always love me. WTF, this is not the first time he has told me this, he has called me several times and told me this. I don't know why he insist on calling me, oh great big important detail here, he is married and has a child. Of course he always tells me how unhappily married he is and how he should have married me blah blah blah. Why can't men just stay faithful?, t'nite he said " You were my one true love, I should have married you, Katie (his daughter) should have been our child. I replied "Oh yes, that would be great and then I would be the wife sitting at home while you ring Sharon (his wife) would be the one you would be calling declaring your undying love. He started to cry and got quiet and told me I knew that he would never do that to me. Yeah right. I will say this for him he is a great father, he adores his daughter and I know that is why he is still with his wife. He called me a few years ago and declared his love for me and told me he would leave his wife in a heartbeat if I would have him. Of course I wouldn't. Why does he keep calling even though I don't encourage him? I always tell him how he should be ashamed of himself. And to think this is a guy that dumped me years ago bc he was afraid I would get back together with my ex husband. Guess I showed him huh? To be totally honest when he broke it off with me I was crushed, years later I heard that he had married the girl he dated after me. By this time we had not spoken in years and I was in a serious rs, well my bf and I went out with 2 other couples to celebrate a friends Bday and we ran into him and his wife at a club, he made sure to come over and talk to me and acted so stupid, my bf was teasing me about how the guy that kept watching me needed to roll his tongue back in. lol. OK a few years passed and I ran into him, I was single and there with friends, he was alone. He followed me around like a lost puppy. That is when he started calling me even though he is married. I just wanted to share this bc it is true they do try to come back eventually, but by the time they do, you see them for the person they really are. Sorry this is so long, I just needed to vent. I need to be thanking God tnite that I didn't wind up marrying him. Some men just can't be faithful. AAARRRGGGHHHH

[theone44]

I was single and there with friends, he was alone. He followed me around like a lost puppy. That is when he started calling me even though he is married. I just wanted to share this bc it is true they do try to come back eventually, but by the time they do, you see them for the person they really are. Sorry this is so long, I just needed to vent. I need to be thanking God tnite that I didn't wind up marrying him. Some men just can't be faithful. AAARRRGGGHHHH

 

 

Yes i do agree they will alway's try to weed their way back in..cuz they know they made a mistake in the first place. I know what happen..he saw u for the first time and saw how good u look,and with your boyfriend. That made him want u back more. He marry now. i would just leave him alone,and let him save the drama for his momma.. If a man or woman leave their mate for you. then they will do the same thing for u.

[Da_1_n_OnlyN3na]

save the drama for his momma

good one!!