IManifestLove Posted April 10, 2017 Posted April 10, 2017 He says he doesn't want a relationship right now. I took that and left but he keeps reaching out and takes an odd interest in my life. He knows that I had changes in my class schedule, and I didn't tell anyone, and no one in my classes knows him. He knew where I got a new job at and I never saw him there and never told anyone about that either. It is weird how he knows stuff like this. He wanted to know what all I got back from taxes and everything. I love him and don't mind telling him anything he wants to know, but I don't know how he gets his information. If I don't talk to him, he creates fake profiles to message me. (Everyone has a recognizable writing style) and will tell me things only he knows. When I actually go to see him everything is great,but then he will get distant and then start talking to me on fake profiles (sometimes alongside his real profile!) I get close, he runs. I stay away: he makes fake profiles. I don't get it he's so complicated! Whys he like this?! It's like he wants me all to himself.
PegNosePete Posted April 10, 2017 Posted April 10, 2017 He sounds a bit like a crazy stalker to me. I would not respond to him and not talk to him again. This will not end well, it never does with that type. If you tell him not to talk to you again, and then never respond to him again, he will probably do the fake profile thing a few times but if you keep not responding he will get bored eventually and move on. In the rare chance that he doesn't then you might need further action. But try that first - cross that bridge if/when you get to it. 1
Larryville Posted April 10, 2017 Posted April 10, 2017 Call the police and get a freaking restraining order before you become the lead story on the evening news. Don’t screw around with mentally ill people, unless you are addicted to the drama. 1
smackie9 Posted April 10, 2017 Posted April 10, 2017 This guy has mental illness and you should at least report him to the police. There are stalking laws now, and you should take advantage of the opportunity to use them to protect yourself. It's quite possible you are the not the first he has done this too. Collect all your evidence, name, photos, where he lives, all the fake profiles, messages, etc, and present this to the police to make your report. And definitely try for a restraining order. I advise you to never communicate with him in any way, don't threaten him or tell him that you are going to the police. Leave that for them to deal with.
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