JS17 Posted August 8, 2005 Posted August 8, 2005 i dumped one guy by email but only because he stopped answering the phone when i called. i would rather have gotten an email saying go away than being ignored.
EIN Posted August 9, 2005 Posted August 9, 2005 Sometimes, an email is the only way to get your voice (whether girl or guy) thorugh to the significant other. Reason is my situation before. She ignored me everytime she walked by when I tried to initiate talk (she acted as if I didnt existed). She always says what she wanted and then leaves me with no chance to respond. I drew the line with an email titled : Trying to Create a Win-Win Outcome as a white falg of truce to come by and talk to me. Result: She came by with Mr. 6'4" and I still thank God to this day that I caught sight of them before they caught sight of me and thus eventually leading me to dump her through email. My point is that in some cases, its cowardly but in some cases, the other person left no choice for the soon to be dumper to break it off through email by not allowing their air time to talk it out.
beejsea2 Posted August 9, 2005 Posted August 9, 2005 Ten months ago my ex broke up with me by packing up and leaving when I was at work. He left a letter that said we weren't good for each other but I had no idea that he felt this way. It took me 7 months to realize I didn't need to know the real reasons. Of course I would have preferred a face to face encounter so I would have been told the truth. Mind you a week before this happened he was telling me that he loved me blah blah blah..... Five days after he left he already had a personal ad up. The fact that I wasn't even a second thought did hurt. But the man I loved was a man of integrity and my ex wasn't that man just a pretender!!
pearlsasinger Posted August 9, 2005 Posted August 9, 2005 I was dumped by instant messagner after a year-long relationship. He admitted he was a coward to not do it face-to-face, but he said that doing it this way was torture enough. He let me call him an hour later but not until I had calmed down a little. Then he called the next night saying he made a big mistake in breaking up with me. Men are so confusing!
beejsea2 Posted August 10, 2005 Posted August 10, 2005 In 2000, my ex broke up with me by packing up and moving out while I was at Disneyland. I had no idea it was coming either, and when I returned home, I thought we had been robbed. I understand what you're saying. My entire stereo system, surround sound speakers everything gone. I'm still now realizing things that he took that did not belong to him. It was a hard lesson to learn!
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