jimeny Posted July 28, 2005 Posted July 28, 2005 Well me and my girlfriend have been together for now 6 months, but for the last month she has had to be away working about 400 miles away. When she got back she explained to me that she was having trouble enjoying herself whilst away and felt she was restricting me and herself and that she was missing me and finding hard. She explained how she didnt like to hear about my day as it felt as if she was missing out. But i have had no problem with her being away, ive missed her being around but always kept in mind that she was coming back soon. We wanted to find a way to make this easier as she realy didnt want to have to go through it again when she went away again to work. The suggestion of splitting up came up as we were not able to find another solution to make it any easier on us. But this is definatley not what i want, and she didnt want to either as she kept saying there must be another way. We said to maybe take a step back in the relationship, but felt maybe we couldnt do that as we had drawn very close to each other. As she had to leave to go away for 3 weeks on a holiday she said that she thinks we should split up, but indeffinatly and will talk again when she gets back. But then she gave me mixed signals, as on the same day she phoned me later on as she was going to bed as if nothing had happened and saying how she wanted a hug and how it was realy good to see me etc... Then on the day she left, it being our 6 months anniversery she rang to say happy 6 months and that we will postpone doing anything till she gets back. When she comes back for a week and i wanted to spend the week with her with and to do something celebrate something for being together for 6 months, and just spend some quality time together. But am unsure of how she will be when she comes back. Do you have any advice on how to make the long distance relationship work and what to do when she comes back from her holiday as i realy dont want to loose her!?!?! I am falling head over heels for this girl and am determined to make it work..
kgal Posted July 29, 2005 Posted July 29, 2005 Just do your best... don't stress over it. If it's meant to be it will work out.
Author jimeny Posted July 29, 2005 Author Posted July 29, 2005 Will definatley do my best. At least i have got 2 weeks to work something out!! U got any tips or anything i could try??
kgal Posted July 29, 2005 Posted July 29, 2005 Hmm.... I think that after saying that she wanted to split.. her heart got the best of her and so she acted as if she never said it. That's what I get from your first post anyway. I would just tell her the truth.. tell her you're falling for her. Honesty is the best policy.
Author jimeny Posted July 29, 2005 Author Posted July 29, 2005 I think i will tell her how i feel when she gets back. From what u said, do you think she wanted to come back on splitting thats why she acted like as she never said it? I think she is stuck in the middle, she will find it hard whilst being away but then doesnt also want to loose everything as we both know we have had the best time together for the past 6 months and know that we could have so much more.
kgal Posted July 30, 2005 Posted July 30, 2005 Well... I would just talk to her. I think that's the only way to find out what is going on in her heart.
Author jimeny Posted July 30, 2005 Author Posted July 30, 2005 ok then, well thank you for the help, given me a bit of confindence boost. Suppose the rest is up to me
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