kawaiicoco Posted April 8, 2017 Posted April 8, 2017 Hi all, this is my first post here though I've been reading through hundreds of threads on here. So, here's my predicament. I've recently gotten out of longer relationship (3.5years) with a guy who was manipulative and controlling and overbearing in the relationship. When I finally got out, I went on some online dating sites and about a 2weeks after we had broken up I met someone. He's very sweet, and funny and just pegs everything that I would want to be dating in this stage in my life (I'm currently 19 and he is turning 21). Our first date was amazing, he was a gentleman and was honest with whatever I had to ask to get my subconscious to settle down and not over think(Backing up actually, I had commitment issues with my ex because I found him so unreliable and undependable when he wanted me to move in with him and wanted to be engaged it just kind of ruined the whole idea of committing to someone and relationships a little bit.) Anyhow, we go on 4 dates in the span of 2 weeks and I really, really like him. He's kind and gentle and we have the same sense of humor! I've asked him his intentions with seeing me and he said that he wants a relationship for the long haul, and didn't really say much more about it. So my thing here is: When is it too soon to ask for exclusivity? He's said that he "likes me" but I know that's not the same as wanting to be exclusively dating some one. All helps appreciated, thank you!
mortensorchid Posted April 8, 2017 Posted April 8, 2017 I'd say it's a bit soon. Just relax and see what it's all about and then let it just "happen". If it's going to that is. 1
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