ExposedBrick Posted April 7, 2017 Posted April 7, 2017 I had three dates with a woman recently. She is physically attractive and we have pretty good conversations but I still feel very unsure about her. There are so many pitfalls in relationships, I find it very difficult to predict whether or not we will be a good fit together. My gut feeling is that she is a bit too straight-laced for my taste. I had a couple other gf's in the past that were very straight-laced and I really don't want to go down that pathway again. I always feel really pressured after three dates to shut down my other options or set the person free. If I was forced to choose between the two, I'd set her free. I have been out with two other women recently as well, both of whom agreed to second and third dates respectfully. Honestly, I don't feel head over heels for any of them at this point. I hate to make quick judgments on others and struggle to know when to cut people loose or see where it goes. I'm having fun with all of them but its hard to tell if there is a future. At what point would it seem as if I am stringing them along? How do you know when its best to cut them loose or give it more time? 1
NuevoYorko Posted April 7, 2017 Posted April 7, 2017 It's obvious that you're not that into her for the longterm, or having much fun. Move on. It will be more awkward later. 4
smackie9 Posted April 7, 2017 Posted April 7, 2017 The answer is pretty obvious....she's not the one. 1
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