Marc878 Posted May 15, 2017 Posted May 15, 2017 I am thinking that I should send her Hi and if she answer me back then see what happens if not then I will never contact her ever again. Right now I am in the stage where I am thinking like what if I move on and she come back to me. I have so many presents that she gave me I can't get rid of all of them they are so many. I am not sure what to do. I want her back. How can I get her back? Look man if there was a chance it would be if she made an honest effort which she hasn't. You're just wasting time and making yourself look bad. Stop it. This is part of growing up. We all gotta get there sometime.
Blanco Posted May 15, 2017 Posted May 15, 2017 Also wanna add that at 21, you shouldn't be wasting your time with long-distance relationships.
Author brokenheart199 Posted May 15, 2017 Author Posted May 15, 2017 You can't win someone back. It has to come from them. Usually, the harder you push, the more they pull away. It's tough for the first 3 months at least. That's a tough part of NC, and you really just have to power through it because you are going to feel bad. The thing to remember is that contacting her doesn't help you. It might make you feel better for a day or so, but, after that, you are going to go right back to feeling crummy. The only way to move on is to move forward and not contact her. Are you still looking at her social media? No use of looking at her social media. She never post pictures or anything. She posted 2 pictures in last 3 years. She always check my Instagram story. She is on top of my story watched people that means she is stalking on me. I just to say that it was my mistake she left me actually. Now, I know that I was over protected and gave her very less space. So, I know I am changed and improved I just wanted her to know.
codest Posted May 18, 2017 Posted May 18, 2017 No use of looking at her social media. She never post pictures or anything. She posted 2 pictures in last 3 years. She always check my Instagram story. She is on top of my story watched people that means she is stalking on me. I just to say that it was my mistake she left me actually. Now, I know that I was over protected and gave her very less space. So, I know I am changed and improved I just wanted her to know. Even if you tend to blame just yourself, your breakup had much deeper roots, most likely. You keep projecting your feelings and thoughts on her, and imagining that you well understand how she feels about you or that she might be as brokenhearted as you now. That's why you continuing clinging on to the idea that you need to take action and do something. The reality is different, though. You need to move on. You better block her on social media completely, the sooner the better, even if you need to close your own accounts for the time being. Keep looking forward, there is a whole new life ahead of you.
Author brokenheart199 Posted June 24, 2017 Author Posted June 24, 2017 My ex want to get back together and she is making all the efforts. Thing is that now told me why she broke up with me and she started dating someone else while we were having fights in last months of our relation. So, now she is telling me that being with that guy made her realize how much she love me. She said that she always thought about me and all that stuff. Thing is always I always thought about her too even if I went on some dates. So, should I give her another chance when she told me she cheated on me? I am really sad right now that she cheated on me, but I want to know that should I get back with her or not. Also, I know that if I do give her a chance I will take things slow. Also, guy she was cheating on she slept with that guy (She said that it was meaningless and it was to forget me which she did after the break up). Help me again guys like you always do. Thank you so much.
dumbass2 Posted June 24, 2017 Posted June 24, 2017 Now way. She cheated on you while in the relationship instead of giving it full effort. Things didn't work out with your replacement so now she is back. Classic classic classic. I do believe you can forgive a cheater depending on the situation and very rarely it works but this is not the case at all. Her words now are meaningless. You will always be wondering about when she will cheat again and leave you hurt a second time. Again I'm all for second chances but not in this case. She probably got dumped. Have some self respect and don't be the second choice. She'll do it again. 2
Marc878 Posted June 24, 2017 Posted June 24, 2017 My ex want to get back together and she is making all the efforts. Thing is that now told me why she broke up with me and she started dating someone else while we were having fights in last months of our relation. So, now she is telling me that being with that guy made her realize how much she love me. She said that she always thought about me and all that stuff. Thing is always I always thought about her too even if I went on some dates. So, should I give her another chance when she told me she cheated on me? I am really sad right now that she cheated on me, but I want to know that should I get back with her or not. Also, I know that if I do give her a chance I will take things slow. Also, guy she was cheating on she slept with that guy (She said that it was meaningless and it was to forget me which she did after the break up). Help me again guys like you always do. Thank you so much. Just cheater speak. She's looking for a rebound but I doubt you'll listen since you couldn't maintain NC 1
Chi townD Posted June 26, 2017 Posted June 26, 2017 Dude, she cheated on you and dumped you for that guy. That tells me that she put more of a value on that guy over you. That she would rather be with him and she kicked you to the curb. Looks like things didn't work out so well with Prince Charming. Now, she's got no one. But, she has you as a back-up plan. Until the next guy comes along that tickles her fancy. Dude, move on. There are ton's of girls in the world that won't cheat on their guy and knows how to treat her man right.
usa1ah Posted June 26, 2017 Posted June 26, 2017 Up to you but I would never get back with it I was you. She cheated before breaking up. She was having sex with this guy before breaking up. What is to stop her in the future if she wants to again. She has proven that she has no respect for you.
Author brokenheart199 Posted July 6, 2017 Author Posted July 6, 2017 She didn't have sex before the break up, but that doesn't matter. I blocked her everywhere and told her to never bother me. She cried a lot, but those crocodile tears didn't work on me. I am writing this to just let you guys know what happened. I will not be posting after this. I got promoted at work so I am really busy most of the time that is why it took me weeks to right back. I blocked her everywhere last week to be exact. She tried contacted me after through friends, but don't worry guys I am not letting her come back and ruin my life. I am happy and its all thanks to you guys. Experience that you shared with me helped me and made me stronger. I can't thank you guys enough. I am sad that I will be deleting this bookmark, but also happy that I have moved on. Take care everyone. Thank you once again for doing an amazing job. Anyone who just got there heart broken- I know it feels like hell but give it little time and you will feel a lot better. Surround yourself with good friends and spend time with family. Most important thing give yourself time because time heals all the wounds. 2
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