women and creeps

[CptInsano]

Most women say it's disgusting over and over. Look at women's online dating profiles. NO SEX TALK. SEX IS BAD. NO SEXUAL INNUENDOS. Women taught me that it's bad.

 

They mean they want no random sex, that's all.

 

At bars and clubs and other other places. I see this touching and the women even say don't do that. Next thing you know they are having sex.

 

How do you know?

[smackie9]

I have been to different clubs in different cities and wow I have never seen anything like that. There might be one couple that needs to get a room, but you see that in a park, at the movies, at the food court at the mall........

 

 

 

I was at a bar last Saturday.....all I saw was a few people falling down drunk getting kicked out.

[CptInsano]

It's all fun and games until a women tells her you're harassing her.

 

Hasn't happened to me, yet. I recently grabbed a woman's ass in public by accident. I mumbled a "Sorry 'bout that." She simply laughed and said: "What for?"

 

I must be clearly doing something wrong.

[kendahke]

You sound as if you feel you're entitled to put your hands on any woman you set your eyes on and are all in your feels because someone clapped back on you.

 

Yeah, that is being a creep. A woman always has first right to determine who touches her, not you or anyone else. Same goes for men--he has first right to determine who can put their hands on him--doesn't matter if you'd like it. Some men would mind.

[coolheadal]

I have been to different clubs in different cities and wow I have never seen anything like that. There might be one couple that needs to get a room, but you see that in a park, at the movies, at the food court at the mall........

 

 

 

I was at a bar last Saturday.....all I saw was a few people falling down drunk getting kicked out.

 

Wow! They actually kick them out if they're so wasted drunk. At the fried pickle (note the fried pickles are really good there you get 2 dipping sauces) anyway it's so loud (6 HDTV showing only sports shows) place is jam packed in there you can't hardly hear your date speak to you? LOL

[Arieswoman]

jon7

 

If a guy is socially awkward even a little he's automatically a creep and she's uncomfortable.

If a guy touches her breasts or looks under her skirt that's fine, as long as he is hot and smooth.

 

Are you for real?

 

Is this really a serious thread?

 

Well I don't know what sort of sleazy dives you've been going to, but I can tell you this ; in 15 years of being divorced and dating I never knew ONE female that would put up with that sort of behaviour from a stranger. And if anyone tried it on, the bouncers would have him out on his ear'ole before he took his next breath.

 

You need to change your ways of meeting women, you really do

[jon7]

They mean they want no random sex, that's all.

 

 

 

How do you know?

 

They mean they don't want sex unless you're hot or they are just lying. I know beacause I see them going to the bathroom at the bar together while showing affection and not coming out for a long time.

[jon7]

jon7

 

 

 

Are you for real?

 

Is this really a serious thread?

 

Well I don't know what sort of sleazy dives you've been going to, but I can tell you this ; in 15 years of being divorced and dating I never knew ONE female that would put up with that sort of behaviour from a stranger. And if anyone tried it on, the bouncers would have him out on his ear'ole before he took his next breath.

 

You need to change your ways of meeting women, you really do

 

Bars and clubs don't work. Online doesn't work. I have no idea when you all really want.

[preraph]

Women like to be attracted to and trust a man, and once they do, then yes, they like physical touch. No woman likes to be groped by anyone she isn't at least attracted to, and most also need to know, like and trust them first.

 

No one likes sneaky guys trying to cop a feel for their own pleasure. No one. And that is what you are mad that you can't do. So get over it and realize your problems go beyond being socially awkward and you need some help because no one is going to come around to your way of thinking. So when the whole world is wrong but you are right, it's you that needs to adjust.

 

You have an entitlement issue. You are not entitled to sex. You have to become someone balanced enough that someone wants to have sex with you.

[jon7]

You sound as if you feel you're entitled to put your hands on any woman you set your eyes on and are all in your feels because someone clapped back on you.

 

Yeah, that is being a creep. A woman always has first right to determine who touches her, not you or anyone else. Same goes for men--he has first right to determine who can put their hands on him--doesn't matter if you'd like it. Some men would mind.

 

I HAVE NEVER PUT MY HANDS ON ANY WOMAN THAT WAY. How full of utter bs are you? What don't you explain why most of you reward hot guys that do such things?

[jon7]

Women like to be attracted to and trust a man, and once they do, then yes, they like physical touch. No woman likes to be groped by anyone she isn't at least attracted to, and most also need to know, like and trust them first.

 

No one likes sneaky guys trying to cop a feel for their own pleasure. No one. And that is what you are mad that you can't do. So get over it and realize your problems go beyond being socially awkward and you need some help because no one is going to come around to your way of thinking. So when the whole world is wrong but you are right, it's you that needs to adjust.

 

You have an entitlement issue. You are not entitled to sex. You have to become someone balanced enough that someone wants to have sex with you.

I'M 41 and DO NOT HAVE AN ENTITLEMENT ISSUE. But you've made my point. By being socially awkward I'm a creep that deserves to be alone. That's what what you're telling me.

While some random just can touch you and that's ok cause he's hot. These random hot guys are anything but balanced.

[jon7]

If a guy is socially awkward even a little he's automatically a creep and she's uncomfortable.

If a guy touches her breasts or looks under her skirt that's fine, as long as he is hot and smooth.

 

The women posting have proved my point.

[SoThatHappened]

The women posting have proved my point.

No, your point is lost and misinformed. It's based on an idea you have, and your "experience" is extremely jaded or just manufactured in your own head.

 

AND, this quote:

If a guy is socially awkward even a little he's automatically a creep and she's uncomfortable.

If a guy touches her breasts or looks under her skirt that's fine, as long as he is hot and smooth.

is a complete generalization and is completely off-base. It's not "hot and smooth" that make the difference, it's money.

[jon7]

Women's advice

 

To a lonely guy who's 41

YOU ARE AN ENTITLED CREEP WHO DESERVES NOTHING

 

To a hot guy who sticks his hand up women's

skirts.

You're so hot. I know I shouldn't do this but I can't help it. Please have sex with me.

[CptInsano]

They mean they don't want sex unless you're hot or they are just lying.

 

Nope. They just need to know and trust you.

 

I know beacause I see them going to the bathroom at the bar together while showing affection and not coming out for a long time.

 

I really want to see that bar.

[William]

Folks, this was the hydra so I'll close this up and leave it to the other mods to sort out content.