not confident about my relationship even tho it's going well

[greengrotto]

im a 29 year old healthy male with a good occupation, income and relatively average looks. i have for the first time in my life got into a relationship that has lasted more than 4 months. this would be my 4th relationship. so far it has been going really well and we have never got into conflicts or arguments or anything like that. we also had our first vacation and it was really awesome and made us love eachother even more. we can never get enough of eachother and we spend as much time as possible together as we can. However deep down i have this feeling (that i had after first relationship) that things might not last. it sometimes makes me uncomfortable and edgy but i never act on it. for example i know a friend of mine gets really insecure when his gf goes out with her friends saturday night but if my gf does that (which she barely does) i'm fine with it. it's just that i feel like i'm carrying a burden and it will fall on me once she dumps me...though so far she has proven my negative feelings always wrong and has been such a wonderful person to me. i wonder if anyone else is afraid of breakups and constantly thinks about it? if so what did you do to forget about this negative thought?

[FoundLove]

Your heart was broken before, so it is only natural for you to feel scared of it happening again. This girl sounds like a sweetheart, so enjoy every minute of your relationship with her and stop worrying so much.

 

Good luck!