A bit off topic but...Ever had prophetic dreams of cheating?

[totallyconfused]

so now that i have some extra time on my hands from work...

 

my dreams, rather, my nightmares. ITS SO CREEPY. for the past 4-5 months i had a couple of different recurring dreams. One of them was like this haunted mansion i was in. I was always just in it, going through this long corridor, this long hallway. and there were antiques everywhere. but the further i kept going into the room, the scarier it got. I mean there was nothing physically scary there, but it was like a feeling of forbode, feelings of terror. It was like I felt I had to get something in that room, but I was just SO scared to keep going thru. The terrifying feeling you get when you think you've seen a ghost - its like gasping for help, ya know. So I had this dream multiple times maybe 15-20 times throughout the past months. Then after I found out this Saturday, my x had been cheating on me and all the truth was told to me and finally clear, dear God I had that dream again. BUT THIS TIME, it was the same mansion but in a different perspective.

 

The dream this time I saw the outside of the mansion, for the first time ever! I ran into the mansion and again I felt that feeling of terror, forbode. I went in b/c I wanted to take a shortcut to get to somewhere. But this time I realized I can simply go outside and take that route instead of feeling so scared to go in this way. It was like I didn't have a reason to go in there the whole time. as if i had no connection/relation to this stupid old house. i didnt NEED to go in there, there was nothing in that room for me. And as I went out and left to go outside, i saw an old lady with glasses yelling at me and a man that passed me. he just stood there watching me leave. It seemed they were the owners of the house...or something. But looking back at all those symbols, I realized...that antiques and the long hallway represented my x and I's history, our long relationship, so many antiques and that it symbols tradition and value I placed upon our relationship. That that forboding and evil feeling parallels with how i am feeling now - for the past 2 mornings, i wake up so terrified that i am alone without my x or anybody. That forboding feeling wasn't a scared feeling all along - it was a BETRAYAL feeling, thats why i could never grasp the feeling it was. and that man that I passed symbolized chris and perhaps that lady his mom (b/c he's always been a momma's boy and I always felt i had to please his mom too). and that man was my x. in the dream he never stopped me or asked me any questions like what are you doing here. he just watched me leave. JUST LIKE HE IS WATCHING me leave this relationship, not even trying to do/say anythign to stop me, basically shutting me out. isnt that so freaky?!! Can u imagine all those sleepless nights was TRULY b/c of my x!

 

On top of that dream I would have ENDLESS recurring dreams of chasing/stabbing dreams. Literally I always had dreams a man was stabbing me or trying to stab me, either throwing knives at me, barely skimming across my neck. Or chase dreams where i felt i had to run for my life at some evil spirit, evil forboding feeling. I never bled tho, but I was stabbing that person too ferociously. Can u imagine wakin up to that ****, thinking you just stabbed someone?! it was horrifying to me, i hated to go to sleep sometimes. i have always been the type to analyze my dreams and i used to tell my x..."those stabbing dreams symbolizes that i feel or someone is stabbing me in the back". Turns out, ALL THOSE DREAMS OF STABBING MEANT IT WAS MY X WHO WAS STABBING ME IN THE BACK! Those stabbing dreams occurred right around the time he began cheating on me - 3 months ago. The parallelism on my dreams and now is so REAL. its so scary. and the feeling of scared of being stabbed, of violence of threat, thats how my ex blew it all up.

 

Having found all of my ex's love letters plastered all over the internet, confront 2 girls that he'd been cheating on with me, thats how it ended. that feeling i had - its like as bad as the feelings i had in my dream.

 

now thats its been almost a full 3 weeks - i dont get any more of those horrid dreams.

 

creepy or what? i swear it brings chills down my spine...

[quankanne]

looking from the outside, no it's not creepy.

 

from what I understand, the house symbolizes you, so the mansion in the dream sounds like you, but not really you because of the situation you were living through, if you know what I mean. The other symbolism, antiques, knives, all make sense as you describe them ...

 

subconsciously, we play out our fears or desires in our dreams, sort of like your brain takes your problems or desires to a different plane and tries to resolve them. The best dream I've had was about me wandering through this nice, airy house, and a guy I admire reaches over to hold my hand – I took it to me, "this is me, and I'm and okay person." Before that, I was plagued by lowered self-esteem, so my subconscious self helped me past that.

 

like you, the worst one dealt with sensing a presence of evil, more of a malevolent spirit, and it sometimes repeats. Thankfully, not very often.

 

hugs to you as you go through a broken marriage from your husband's affairs. As hard as it will be in upcoming days and months, just remember this: you deserve nothing less than love and respect from a life-mate, and your ex was a jerk to refuse to bring that to your relationship by dishonoring his commitment to your marriage.

[totallyconfused]

thank goodness there was NO marriage. it was just a bf of 4 years, that shudve really only made it to 3.