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What can I do to reconcile with my ex fiance?

ashrose

By ashrose
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Hi there my ex and I've been together for 2 years. We recently broke up and I am doing all I can to have him get back together with me. He broke it off because of my maturity towards certain things and because I wouldn't find a job. What can I do to save our relationship and what do I have to do to get him back cuz he won't listen to me when I tell him I want to get back together and he says he grieves over the breakup but it was for the best. He is the love of my life and idk what to do to save us. This is not like any breakup where I should move on. I am spending time with him and I occasionally stay the night with him a few days a week.

Altair0770 Established Member

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You should disappear completely because you are giving everything he wants without commitment.

 

Get your act together. Get a job, work on yourself, and he may eventually reach out. And yes, you should move on.

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Hi there my ex and I've been together for 2 years. We recently broke up and I am doing all I can to have him get back together with me. He broke it off because of my maturity towards certain things and because I wouldn't find a job. What can I do to save our relationship and what do I have to do to get him back cuz he won't listen to me when I tell him I want to get back together and he says he grieves over the breakup but it was for the best. He is the love of my life and idk what to do to save us. This is not like any breakup where I should move on. I am spending time with him and I occasionally stay the night with him a few days a week.

 

Have you found a job?

Smitts New Member

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Actions speak louder than words.

Yes, it is pretty cliche.

 

Maybe the reason he isn't listening is because he doesn't believe you.

Your best bet is to not push toward getting back together but focus on yourself.

 

I would start with getting a job. Not many people out there look for a partner who is jobless or doesn't set goals for themselves.

 

MAYBE if he sees that you have grown he would be more willing to give it a try later on.

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