JDJ Posted April 7, 2017 Posted April 7, 2017 My then wife told me "I'm pregnant" then, a few minutes later, "I have something else to tell you... I'm not sure who the father is." 1
todreaminblue Posted April 7, 2017 Posted April 7, 2017 My then wife told me "I'm pregnant" then, a few minutes later, "I have something else to tell you... I'm not sure who the father is." thats rank....deb 1
Marc878 Posted April 7, 2017 Posted April 7, 2017 We broke up because he didn't want to marry me & never thought I was good enough to be the mother of his children. 15 years later, when I can no longer have children, he says that the "biggest regret of his life was not having a kid with me." I wanted to punch him. Instead I told him that was the cruelest thing anybody ever said to me & after all these years of thinking he was a good guy I had to revise my opinion. Ha!!!! Can you say "closure"?
Marc878 Posted April 7, 2017 Posted April 7, 2017 i only like a handful of tit ...the rest is wasted fat....this wasnt even an ex...this was a guy at a bar who i rejected....nicely by the way..... another guy who negged me..in response to my girlfriend saying deb has beautiful skin doesnt she....eh says..i bet you have pimples all over your ass anyone who has a face with no pimples and clear skin has a pimply ass.....you do dont you.....then he asked to date me.....and that was eighties we didnt call it negging we called those guys players.....dickheads..... Really smooth. How could you resist that charm? 2
todreaminblue Posted April 7, 2017 Posted April 7, 2017 Really smooth. How could you resist that charm? lol true...so hard.......to resist...nearly swooned at his superior vocab.....deb 1
Mrin Posted April 7, 2017 Posted April 7, 2017 Worst thing? Can't think of it. But I can tell you the worst thing I've ever said. "I will love you until I draw my last breath on this earth." I broke up with her. Ya. Feel pretty ****ty. Though, I will say, I will love her until I die. But we won't be together. 1
Sango118 Posted April 7, 2017 Posted April 7, 2017 "I love you so much" a few days later "I don't love you anymore, I ****ing hate everything about you!" & "I'll never want to get married with you!".
Author klick09 Posted April 7, 2017 Author Posted April 7, 2017 Worst thing? Can't think of it. But I can tell you the worst thing I've ever said. "I will love you until I draw my last breath on this earth." I broke up with her. Ya. Feel pretty ****ty. Though, I will say, I will love her until I die. But we won't be together. Why would not you try to work things out with someone you are going to love until you die? 1
Maldives Posted April 7, 2017 Posted April 7, 2017 Something you still remember...months, or even years later... Een I wss kicked to the curb by a gf she cheated my ex wife sent an sms to never contact her (long story she actually contacted me) tells me I was the wors t thing to ever happen to her and to never contact her go figure. I just remember sitting on the balcony in so much pain I went numb. Yrs later the ex wife tried again ticking fb posts I eventually blocked her and left the past behind. Ye thats gotta be the worst for me
Rockdad Posted April 7, 2017 Posted April 7, 2017 "If you leave I will never let you see your kids." It kept me there 3 more miserable years.
Bromeo Posted April 7, 2017 Posted April 7, 2017 Worst thing? Can't think of it. But I can tell you the worst thing I've ever said. "I will love you until I draw my last breath on this earth." I broke up with her. Ya. Feel pretty ****ty. Though, I will say, I will love her until I die. But we won't be together. I had saved a voicemail from mine saying the same: "You are all I want in this world. You must let me know you are ok. I love you so much. Ill never leave." And then she ghosted me. After all the months of games, pain, and bs, I told her she didn't deserve someone who was as crazy in love with her as I was, I hoped she got her s*** together, and to not to contact me. Never, ever again.
allybaba789 Posted April 13, 2017 Posted April 13, 2017 Mine is a bit different to the others on this forum as its not horrible. This really hurt me, I don't think I've ever felt so sad when I read it (he said it in a text). He said to me "In some weird way, I know that you're the best thing that ever happened to me". I'm a bit more mature than him and I think being with me, to put it bluntly, helped him get his sh*t together. It makes me feel sick when I think about this phrase; that I was a person who came along and changed him for the better but it still wasn't enough. Someone else will enjoy the better version of him. 1
allybaba789 Posted April 13, 2017 Posted April 13, 2017 "If you leave I will never let you see your kids." It kept me there 3 more miserable years. Is this not illegal where you live? Or was there a reason why that could have been true?
Author klick09 Posted April 14, 2017 Author Posted April 14, 2017 Mine is a bit different to the others on this forum as its not horrible. This really hurt me, I don't think I've ever felt so sad when I read it (he said it in a text). He said to me "In some weird way, I know that you're the best thing that ever happened to me". I'm a bit more mature than him and I think being with me, to put it bluntly, helped him get his sh*t together. It makes me feel sick when I think about this phrase; that I was a person who came along and changed him for the better but it still wasn't enough. Someone else will enjoy the better version of him. So, I would not count on someone else enjoying a better version of him. If someone says "you are the best thing that happened to me", then dumps you, it sounds like game playing. On the other hand, my ex was telling me I was the best thing that happened to him, and less than a year later it was replaced with "you are the worst thing that happened to me". With time, it does not matter anymore... 1
allybaba789 Posted April 14, 2017 Posted April 14, 2017 So, I would not count on someone else enjoying a better version of him. If someone says "you are the best thing that happened to me", then dumps you, it sounds like game playing. On the other hand, my ex was telling me I was the best thing that happened to him, and less than a year later it was replaced with "you are the worst thing that happened to me". With time, it does not matter anymore... I see what you are saying but I think I genuinely helped him get his life back on track and he simultaneously didn't have strong feelings for me. That is possible without game playing. It's just a sad truth.
SpecialJ Posted April 15, 2017 Posted April 15, 2017 OP, since I posted my initial response, I keep coming up with more and more terrible things a few exes have said to me. I haven't added any more to the comments, but it made me realize that I've been conditioned to accept enough bad behavior in my relationships (the ones that started good, then the guy starts sliding me slowly into thinking bad behavior is normal), and next time there's even a hint of that happening and that I've started dating this type of guy again, I'm running away. So thanks for starting this topic, it's been helpful to hopefully moving on to something better! -J
Daisy2013 Posted April 15, 2017 Posted April 15, 2017 "It's your fault you keep getting hurt because you keep putting up with it." Harsh, but truth. I was in a relationship that caused a lot of pain, but I loved him so. He would apologize for hurting me and thank me for putting up with him. One day when I expressed how I was feeling, he said the above words.
Arieswoman Posted April 15, 2017 Posted April 15, 2017 Daisy, "It's your fault you keep getting hurt because you keep putting up with it." Harsh, but truth. I got something similar " I don't upset you, you only upset yourself" (after he'd said something particularly nasty to me) I put up with his cr@p for far too long, just like you did. So what he said was true in a way. It was also the response of someone who wouldn't take responsibility for his own bad behaviour.
breadbin Posted April 15, 2017 Posted April 15, 2017 My ex had a few lines that hurt me pretty bad and I still remember them. 'I'm going uptown to get a young buck' 'I wouldn't normally go out with someone like you' 'I thought you'd change everything about yourself when you went out with me' 'I want muscles' bear in mind all these were said more than once when we still were going out. I'm a little overweight and only 2 years older than her! 1
Chica_blue Posted April 20, 2017 Posted April 20, 2017 He told me: "i'm so thankful as being with you I can truly be myself" Some months later: "Its true that I can be myself when I'm with you, but being with you and being myself means I can't fulfill other responsibilities" (work, family). I was speechless. It's such a passive agressive way to blame everything on me.
TheParadox7 Posted April 20, 2017 Posted April 20, 2017 "...you can be my concubine." (In a text message) Damned if I was.
lady_a Posted April 20, 2017 Posted April 20, 2017 "Will you marry me?" Followed 3 weeks later by, "I made a mistake. I fell in love with an idea of who I *thought* you were, but that's not who you really are. I can't marry the person you are. I do not love you the way a husband should love a wife." ??????
Ronnys93 Posted April 20, 2017 Posted April 20, 2017 I see what you are saying but I think I genuinely helped him get his life back on track and he simultaneously didn't have strong feelings for me. That is possible without game playing. It's just a sad truth. Yikes, that happened with me to my ex. I helped him get back on the road to recovery from some emotional trauma and he threw that same statement almost in my face. Then said we were each others stepping stones LOL.
Jadedbyluv Posted April 20, 2017 Posted April 20, 2017 Told me to go kill myself and then laughed that I would be doing him a favor.
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