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What was the worst thing an ex said to you?

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curiouslysearching Established Member

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Oh, I have another one (different guy).

 

After forcing himself on me when I was clearly fighting him off and saying no 'I thought you were just playing a game, stop making such a big deal out of it'.

 

We had a somewhat kinky sex life but rape fantasy was never part of it.

 

that is a crime.....OMG why would someone do that

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todreaminblue Established Member

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Yep, I've gotten this one from 2 different women.

 

 

there's only one love....."in love" is the honeymoon period gone..where you need to start working harder in my opinion...if you truly love some one...you stay .....you work it out ..you then can say ....i love you...it needs no other words or to be "in love"...just ...i love you......and really mean it.....deb

todreaminblue Established Member

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i just want to stick my cock in you is that bad?....i just want you to suck my cock is that bad?....no its not....bad....is what i reply and then go silent....(recent)

 

 

in my head i answer his question

 

sex is beautiful.....seeing a woman who is gentle and kind and forgiving who gave you three stunning gorgeous inside and out girls...... as a vessel for a penis...is bad.....

 

he then says...i miss you i cant wait to see you

 

dont know which is worse.....

SevenCity Established Member

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i love you but im not in love with you

 

My ex said this to me. I replied with "No you don't. You love your cat - would you leave her on the side of the road and walk away from her forever?"

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jamili Established Member

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i just want to stick my cock in you is that bad?....i just want you to suck my cock is that bad?......

 

Lol and they said there are no more romantics left in the world?

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Pumpingiron34 Established Member

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"I had one foot out the door the entire 2 years I was with you."

 

I'll never forget that she said that, and not likely to forgive.

 

'I don't love you anymore, I never truly did'

 

"I loved him more than I ever loved you. Always have, always will."

 

referring to the guy she cheated on me with.

 

Dam some of these are pretty bad but, i got some haunting ones that literally caused ptsd. Funny thing is most of them were said after the first time i ever broke no contact.

 

I have not loved you in a long time i was just comfortable, you have no idea how many guys want me, i know it hurts right now but youll get over it, will you leave me alone now after she just came over drunk and had sex with me, no but i dont love you im over it. um when i first broke no contact she bragged about what a dick magnet she became using those words exactly. Same line reused 8 months later of no contact when she showed up at my house.

 

Those are just some that haunt me nearly every day. Im sure theres more but i think my brain pretty much blocked them out.

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Pumpingiron34 Established Member

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My ex said this to me. I replied with "No you don't. You love your cat - would you leave her on the side of the road and walk away from her forever?"

 

wow funny this reminds me of another. When she broke up with me i said what about our cat? that we originally got together a year before. Well she replied with its not my cat it never was. 8 months later it was her cat though real confusing.

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Gillys Established Member

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After discussing moving in together for several months, I asked an ex to move in with me and I got:

"Ha, did you think this was serious, this is just a temporary thing."

 

Lesson learned: never have that talk directly after sex, most awkward moment ever! :p

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Stercrazy Established Member

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i love you but im not in love with you

 

Yup got this one too. I told her it was a cop out and bull****.

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todreaminblue Established Member

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I have so many horribel things that have been said to m e...i get bored with it..what is said cant be undone or forgotten...but i can move on ...through the horrible things said or done i have been able to counsel others.....so now i will share some horrible things other exes have said and give context....yep helping others leaves me with snapshot conversations for them.....its why decided i cant do social work as a job......like in this thread the horrible things exes have said to good hearted people makes me want to find them and a big room with heaps of ceiling fans and tie these exes up....hit top speed till they promise never to say such things again.....ever....

 

my sister lived with a guy....he got engaged to her.....they had a huge engagement party paid for by my mum.....

 

my mum planned the wedding coming up to one month before qall paid for by my mum...

 

 

lets call him dick.....goes to my sister...i only agreed to marry you so i wouldnt get kicked out.....i don't want children i got fixed before i was with you(my sister always wanted children) he lied to her......led her on...and was a total dick....of course he was asked to leave ...my sister hasnt been with anyone since.......its been 11 years for her.....turned my mum off dating anyone too in sympathy.....me ..i have dated and continue to believe in love.....evne though...man..how many dicks are in the world..my sis by the way is movign to an island with my mum and planning on fostering....hoping for eventual adoption...she will adopt any child ...down syndrome....she just wants a child....now...unfortunately........deb

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spiderowl Established Member

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Thanks for the sex

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todreaminblue Established Member

todreaminblue

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Thanks for the sex

 

yuck huh..insulting.deb.....

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spiderowl Established Member

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yuck huh..insulting.deb.....

 

Yes, I don't think he actually meant it as an insult either but it felt like one! :mad:

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bntcrkfrm New Member

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"Rot in Hell"

3 months later she wanted to comeback... For several years every 3-6 months she would reach out and try to comeback. She admitted I treated her better than any man had ever treated her. That was the last time I saw her.

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EmilyJane Established Member

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"You're the worse person I've ever met. Don't contact me again."

 

And 3 months later, he emailed me to compliment me on a project I'd been working on. Like he asked me to, I never replied.

 

I think I've used that one on a guy :o

 

In my defence he'd been cheating

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curiouslysearching Established Member

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I think I've used that one on a guy :o

 

In my defence he'd been cheating

 

he deserved then....and maybe something a little worse:laugh:

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UpArrow New Member

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Wife of 37 years: "It's not you it's me"

 

She was very cowardly in communicating difficult issues with me. Still is a year after seperation

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todreaminblue Established Member

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you're too good for me.....useless untrue statement.....making being a good person...to be wrong......

 

..writing that makes me feel like the mad hatter..after 37 years to say ...its not you it is me..is condescending in my opinion..if it was her she should be willing to work on it....after 37 years......deb

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Buttercat Member

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that is a crime.....OMG why would someone do that

 

I know. And current me would have called the cops. But 23 year old me (he was 39) was too scared and confused.

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curiouslysearching Established Member

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I know. And current me would have called the cops. But 23 year old me (he was 39) was too scared and confused.

 

you deserve better and you need to realize it

these are wimpy men who are void of back bones

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Buttercat Member

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you deserve better and you need to realize it

these are wimpy men who are void of back bones

 

Thank you :)

 

I know that now..this was 10 years ago.

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todreaminblue Established Member

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Thank you :)

 

I know that now..this was 10 years ago.

 

what hindsight is...is so beautiful...you want to kick your past self.....saying come on...you let him say that and live.....

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SpecialJ Established Member

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A guy I was dating for a couple months and crazy about broke up with me because I was "too nice", knew I was crushed, came back 2 months later for a booty call (I was totally naive about his intentions back then, but we'd also always had incredible sex so I went with it and hoped we'd reconcile), then met someone else immediately after and said the booty call night was great because it gave him closure.

 

I dated another guy for a few weeks who turned out to actually be abusive. It took me about a week to catch on that he had been hiding an abusive streak the first month. He was really mean to me after our last sexual encounter and said one of us had enjoyed themselves a lot more than the other (he meant I had enjoyed it and he hadn't, and had no reason to say this other than to be hurtful). I refused to ever speak to him again.

 

I also dated a guy who broke up with me because I wasn't "athletic" enough. I was in better shape than he was.

 

I'm good at finding jerks.

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klick09 Member

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I'm good at finding jerks.

I am so familiar with this :) I think if I was actually looking for jerks, I would find less of them. Well, what I think happens is that if you are a nice (and maybe a bit dependent), you will always be narcissists' prey. So, you need to watch for that. Hugs to you.

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Deadmeat Established Member

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"Meh"

 

When asked how she felt about our relationship.

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