Cornelius_Smiff Posted April 6, 2017 Posted April 6, 2017 Well this was not technically said to me but was said about me (I had seen her skype chats) "God.. He is such an ass, he keeps trying to make me feel guilty as if it's my fault or something". This was 2 hours after she had blind sided me (after 5 years together and we were due to be married) and was saying this to the guy she 'Had a crush on', and whom I later found out she had cheated on me with and left me for. You have to have some fundamental part of your heart missing to be so cold about something like this a mere few hours into a breakup. She also used the line on me "I love you, but I'm not in love with you", which is one the most insulting disrespectful things a person can say in my opinion. I know it sounds weird but it's essentially a person who know's they have done wrong trying to absolve their guilt and transfer the culpability back onto you. 1
keiji Posted April 6, 2017 Posted April 6, 2017 Well this was not technically said to me but was said about me (I had seen her skype chats) "God.. He is such an ass, he keeps trying to make me feel guilty as if it's my fault or something". This was 2 hours after she had blind sided me (after 5 years together and we were due to be married) and was saying this to the guy she 'Had a crush on', and whom I later found out she had cheated on me with and left me for. You have to have some fundamental part of your heart missing to be so cold about something like this a mere few hours into a breakup. This reminded me of one of the most painful moments of my life. My then wife had left me for a work mate after nine years together. One day, three or four months later, I stopped at a traffic light and I heard, "look, that's keiji". When I turned around I saw her and her new boyfriend. She was laughing at me. Unfortunately, that wasn't her most cruel moment. 1
1fish2fish Posted April 6, 2017 Posted April 6, 2017 "No offense, but I've never dated anyone with boobs smaller than a C cup." This, from a guy with a penis 2" long fully erect. No, I am not exaggerating. :lmao: 6
Cornelius_Smiff Posted April 6, 2017 Posted April 6, 2017 "No offense, but I've never dated anyone with boobs smaller than a C cup." This, from a guy with a penis 2" long fully erect. No, I am not exaggerating. :lmao: It's funnier when the irony is lost on them like that 1
todreaminblue Posted April 6, 2017 Posted April 6, 2017 (edited) i only like a handful of tit ...the rest is wasted fat....this wasnt even an ex...this was a guy at a bar who i rejected....nicely by the way..... another guy who negged me..in response to my girlfriend saying deb has beautiful skin doesnt she....eh says..i bet you have pimples all over your ass anyone who has a face with no pimples and clear skin has a pimply ass.....you do dont you.....then he asked to date me.....and that was eighties we didnt call it negging we called those guys players.....dickheads..... Edited April 6, 2017 by todreaminblue 1
Cornelius_Smiff Posted April 6, 2017 Posted April 6, 2017 i only like a handful of tit ...the rest is wasted fat....this wasnt even an ex...this was a guy at a bar who i rejected....nicely by the way..... another guy who negged me..in response to my girlfriend saying deb has beautiful skin doesnt she....eh says..i bet you have pimples all over your ass anyone who has a face with no pimples and clear skin has a pimply ass.....you do dont you.....then he asked to date me.....and that was eighties we didnt call it negging we called those guys players.....dickheads..... I prefer the phrase hoofwanking spunktrumpet myself but dickhead seems apt as well. 1
Bromeo Posted April 6, 2017 Posted April 6, 2017 This reminded me of one of the most painful moments of my life. My then wife had left me for a work mate after nine years together. One day, three or four months later, I stopped at a traffic light and I heard, "look, that's keiji". When I turned around I saw her and her new boyfriend. She was laughing at me. Unfortunately, that wasn't her most cruel moment. I had gone to her after a month of nc to tell her I loved her, wanted to marry her, and make babies with her. She cried a bit. Then she went and made fun of me to the hoodie wearing losers sitting at the bar. Never, ever again. Whenever I want to reach out, I remember this. 1
todreaminblue Posted April 6, 2017 Posted April 6, 2017 (edited) I prefer the phrase hoofwanking spunktrumpet myself but dickhead seems apt as well. lol smilin...i like that ...can i borrow?ill make it into a rap.......ill get back to you.....deb in ten seconds ten nine eight...here goes...... 10..... 9..... 8.... 7.....6 5 4 21 think you butter my holey breakfast crumpet, you nothing but a hoof wankin spunktrumpet, you can take this rap and you can lump it, i aint your little groover strumpet, and if you dont like that well you can funk it...... listen hard no watch my lips...funk it..... yep funk funk funk it.....hoofwanking spunktrumpet, you aitn getting near my butter or my crumpet, funk funk funk it, written by todreaminblue, cornelius this rap i made it for you ... funk it down now...boppin head with headphones on...funk funk funk it.....no where near my crumpet..... fade out the bass the bass the bass funk it now.....hoofwankinspunktrumpet....lol...smilin...now thats a sick beat ........deb Edited April 6, 2017 by todreaminblue
todreaminblue Posted April 6, 2017 Posted April 6, 2017 blue #76 Whaaaaat ?! yep i asked him to leave......deb
JFReyes Posted April 6, 2017 Posted April 6, 2017 That, is the stupidest thing ever. It's rubbish. And immaturity. It's certainly rubbish but as for immaturity, I don't know. I received it from a 58 year old woman with grandchildren who knows better.
Cornelius_Smiff Posted April 6, 2017 Posted April 6, 2017 lol smilin...i like that ...can i borrow?ill make it into a rap.......ill get back to you.....deb in ten seconds ten nine eight...here goes...... 10..... 9..... 8.... 7.....6 5 4 21 think you butter my holey breakfast crumpet, you nothing but a hoof wankin spunktrumpet, you can take this rap and you can lump it, i aint your little groover strumpet, and if you dont like that well you can funk it...... listen hard no watch my lips...funk it..... yep funk funk funk it.....hoofwanking spunktrumpet, you aitn getting near my butter or my crumpet, funk funk funk it, written by todreaminblue, cornelius this rap i made it for you ... funk it down now...boppin head with headphones on...funk funk funk it.....no where near my crumpet..... fade out the bass the bass the bass funk it now.....hoofwankinspunktrumpet....lol...smilin...now thats a sick beat ........deb Ha ha ha.. FFS! Love it! I actually heard that song in the style of a Run DMC track complete with sampled circa late 80s, early 90s synth goodness. I love the implied innuendo with butter and crumpet. Damnit, Now I cannot get your fictional song out of my head. Mouldsnorting gonadflicker is also a hometown favourite. But then again I am a very disturbed person. 1
todreaminblue Posted April 6, 2017 Posted April 6, 2017 (edited) Ha ha ha.. FFS! Love it! I actually heard that song in the style of a Run DMC track complete with sampled circa late 80s, early 90s synth goodness. I love the implied innuendo with butter and crumpet. Damnit, Now I cannot get your fictional song out of my head. Mouldsnorting gonadflicker is also a hometown favourite. But then again I am a very disturbed person. mouldsnorting gonad flicker , you look at me and your heart beats quicker, im not gonna be your groovin trophy sticker, your nothin but a moldsnortin gonad flicker..... for you smiff ,] this is your riff, no bow chicka bow, chicka bow, chicka bow wow we know how to funk we gonna funk it now... spin that disc like run,dmc lsmiffys drops sick beats like 123 mold snorting gonad flickers.... cant say crap as their tongues grow thicker.....hee hehe....slinks off ...headphones boppin....run dmc said walk this way hands up now..... todreaminblue is an ex dj (ex radio station disc jockey) this is blue on 104.5 2bob fm comin atcha all night ........actually not ...i am sleepy...lol Edited April 6, 2017 by todreaminblue 1
keiji Posted April 6, 2017 Posted April 6, 2017 I had gone to her after a month of nc to tell her I loved her, wanted to marry her, and make babies with her. She cried a bit. Then she went and made fun of me to the hoodie wearing losers sitting at the bar. Never, ever again. Whenever I want to reach out, I remember this. And then you confront them about it and they deny it. So you're not only laughable, but also a paranoid.
AT15 Posted April 6, 2017 Posted April 6, 2017 " if you have that baby, you're on your own. I'm not helping you." "I broke up with you because I can't stand your daughter."(my daughter, at the time, was a 4 year old spit fire who saw he was a scumbag way before I did) "I want you to suck my d-ck." ( he came into town and asked to see me, as I was leaving from the meet up he says this) This guy was probably the worst human being I'd ever fallen for. Now, I just cringe at the thought that I ever let him close to me or my daughter. 4
SpecialJ Posted April 6, 2017 Posted April 6, 2017 Klick09, yes, that's totally right. All those stories are old. I read up a lot on narcissism signs three years ago and kicked that dynamic out (at least when it's obvious)!
Bromeo Posted April 6, 2017 Posted April 6, 2017 And then you confront them about it and they deny it. So you're not only laughable, but also a paranoid. No confrontation, just a calm voicemail letting her know my side. After another week of avoiding, 4am quotes, not responding, and general game playing. I couldn't take it any longer. Naturally there was no response. So be it. At this point, I'm 90% at peace. 1
Author klick09 Posted April 6, 2017 Author Posted April 6, 2017 Klick09, yes, that's totally right. All those stories are old. I read up a lot on narcissism signs three years ago and kicked that dynamic out (at least when it's obvious)! Oh, you read my story on NPD? I know! I totally know now. I think I have some sort of PTSD. You have no idea what kind of brain f....I endured during these two years. I know there is no way to revenge with a narcissist, but trust me....If I could.... 1
DrReplyInRhymes Posted April 6, 2017 Posted April 6, 2017 Worst thing ever said to me that actually had a lasting impact on my mental health? Well, I'm not ever going to share that. 2
GeekLover Posted April 6, 2017 Posted April 6, 2017 (edited) My feelings for you are gone. All that's left is the habit of having you in my life. I know you love me, but you'll get over it. ...and more hurtful phrases...oh! And to top it off, the breakup was done by text/email. He refused to meet me in person. Over 5 years in a relationship too...coward. Edited April 6, 2017 by GeekLover 2
SpecialJ Posted April 6, 2017 Posted April 6, 2017 Klick09, revenge on a narcissist is NC forever. They cease to exist because they can't sustain themselves without external validation! And building yourself back up after the mind f*ck, living well. 1
Author klick09 Posted April 7, 2017 Author Posted April 7, 2017 Klick09, revenge on a narcissist is NC forever. They cease to exist because they can't sustain themselves without external validation! And building yourself back up after the mind f*ck, living well. The problem is they always find someone new, so I do not think he is really missing on my source of supply. I have been feeling so frustrated lately. Since we are talking about hurtful things our ex's said to us, when he cried on the phone a few weeks ago and was then brutal a few days later, his words were " I cried because you are pathetic". Why cannot people like this just go extinct...
OatsAndHall Posted April 7, 2017 Posted April 7, 2017 "You're not going to like to hear this, but at least I felt wanted by (insert her violent, drunk exes name in)". She had a TRO out against him at the time. I had spent the day fishing with a friend and apparently didn't "clear it with her".
Art_Critic Posted April 7, 2017 Posted April 7, 2017 1990, "Can't you just put it in and get it over with ?" I did just that too then we broke up shortly after that... 2000, "I hope you get in a car wreck and die..." My then wife and and soon exwife... 1
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