avvril3000 Posted April 4, 2017 Posted April 4, 2017 In every relationship i've had, its progressed from hot desire for eachother, porn style, over time, to lovey dovey puppy love, smoochie moochieness. Its still love but its different. In a way, i as an adult female, feel less desireable when it moves into cutesy wootsy love. And as much, as its nice to to think they love me more than just pure raw sex, sometimes the lovey dovey side of things isn't raw and passionate. its this something that other people experience? why am i having such an issue with this?
preraph Posted April 4, 2017 Posted April 4, 2017 I have thus far managed to avoid the smoochie moochieness, because I didn't have a junior high school boyfriend. Some people would really like it though, I suppose. But some like it hot.
somanymistakes Posted April 4, 2017 Posted April 4, 2017 The crazy wild desire rush of a new relationship almost always wears off over time unless artificially boosted. It's natural, it's part of the way hormones change, combined with getting to know a person better so they're less scary-exciting than when they're new and unfamiliar. Some people engage in thrill-seeking sexual antics to keep that spice. Some stay in long-distance relationships so that there's always the passion of reconnecting after an absence. Others are driven to constantly move on to new relationships (or cheat).
Author avvril3000 Posted April 4, 2017 Author Posted April 4, 2017 The crazy wild desire rush of a new relationship almost always wears off over time unless artificially boosted. It's natural, it's part of the way hormones change, combined with getting to know a person better so they're less scary-exciting than when they're new and unfamiliar. Some people engage in thrill-seeking sexual antics to keep that spice. Some stay in long-distance relationships so that there's always the passion of reconnecting after an absence. Others are driven to constantly move on to new relationships (or cheat). well thats just f**king depressing.
Author avvril3000 Posted April 4, 2017 Author Posted April 4, 2017 I have thus far managed to avoid the smoochie moochieness, because I didn't have a junior high school boyfriend. Some people would really like it though, I suppose. But some like it hot. Whats a junior high school boyfriend got to do with anything? i'm 32. and have 4 long term adult relationships since high school.
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