fred123 Posted April 4, 2017 Posted April 4, 2017 if you have a recently new girlfriend and you see them walking on the street and you are on the opposite side of the street and you see your girlfriend walking on her lunch break with her work colleagues is it ok to go over and say hi to your girlfriend or is it inappropriate as she might be embarrassed? if you have a girlfriend and you were in her area where she works is it appropriate to leave a donut on her desk so she has it when she comes back?
somanymistakes Posted April 4, 2017 Posted April 4, 2017 I don't see why she'd be embarrassed about you saying hi, although it might be awkward if you want to stop and talk a long time when she needs to get to lunch. As for leaving stuff on her desk - has she brought you into her workplace before, and do you know if it's okay for her to have food in there? If you've only recently started dating it might feel slightly weird for you to sneak around in her office when she's not there, but if you've been there before and her workmates know you, or you ask them to give it to her, that shouldn't be a problem.
Author fred123 Posted April 4, 2017 Author Posted April 4, 2017 Yh if her workmates dont know about you how do you work around that? Iv been to her work place to drop off her ipod she left but no one asked who i was. What if she specifically has told you she doewnt want her work colleagues to know about her love life and she doewnt wqnt th3m asking questions?
d0nnivain Posted April 4, 2017 Posted April 4, 2017 Of course you can say hello when you see her in public. If you know she's with a work colleague, let her set the PDA pace but you offer nothing more then a social half hug & peck on the cheek, unless she ups the ante.
Shepp Posted April 4, 2017 Posted April 4, 2017 if you have a recently new girlfriend and you see them walking on the street and you are on the opposite side of the street and you see your girlfriend walking on her lunch break with her work colleagues is it ok to go over and say hi to your girlfriend or is it inappropriate as she might be embarrassed? Definitely! I don't understand why you wouldnt! - I'd cross the street to say hi to my best friends wifes grandma! if you have a girlfriend and you were in her area where she works is it appropriate to leave a donut on her desk so she has it when she comes back? Is this the same girl as above? I.e. is this a very new gf, a girl you're just dating, or a proper girlfriend? I'd totally leave a donut for a long term gf or for my wife, I wouldnt for a new relationship, its probably a bit too full on!! 1
preraph Posted April 4, 2017 Posted April 4, 2017 Be honest. Are you lurking outside her work hoping to see her or see what she's doing? I mean, it seems like a no-brainer that if you accidentally run into your gf on the street, you say hello, but why do i get the feeling you are not "accidentally" right outside her workplace? And no to the donut. I am getting the feeling you're just checking up on her or trying to see her more often than she has consented to. I apologize wholeheartedly if that is not the case and you are just prone to accidentally buying donuts and then ending up outside her workplace. If you have not been invited to her workplace, then no, you should not just show up there.
rushed Posted April 4, 2017 Posted April 4, 2017 Be honest. Are you lurking outside her work hoping to see her or see what she's doing? I mean, it seems like a no-brainer that if you accidentally run into your gf on the street, you say hello, but why do i get the feeling you are not "accidentally" right outside her workplace? And no to the donut. I am getting the feeling you're just checking up on her or trying to see her more often than she has consented to. I apologize wholeheartedly if that is not the case and you are just prone to accidentally buying donuts and then ending up outside her workplace. If you have not been invited to her workplace, then no, you should not just show up there. I agree with preraph. Leave her alone when she's at work. She told you she doesn't want her work colleagues to know about her love life. Respect her wishes. You seem to have issues with boundaries. You had another post asking if it was okay to leave a present for an ex at her office. None of this is cool. It's creepy and stalkerish. You don't mess with another person's livelihood. 1
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