My girlfriend keeps on complaining about her ex

[Butterfly213]

we've been one month together, her ex isn't over her and continued chasing her and still is . Thing is , for the first 2 weeks of relationship I tolerated this attitude and I listened to her, now it's becoming annoying .

She says stuff like " he tried calling me 3 times today and I didn't reply " or like " he tried to force me to talk to him on the spot in public but I didn't allow him " . I know she is so over him and they've been separated for a long time, even their whole relationship was a turmoil (they broke up 6 times in 4 months, it was that bad) .

 

But her ex doesn't get it at all, he keeps on chasing her .She blocked him everywhere and he still doesn't give up.

 

Anyway, today she also was like " he called me when I was in class and I didn't reply " so I literally said " can we just limit talks about him?!" .She justified it by saying that she doesn't wanna hide anything from me but come on man I don't wanna hear such things .

 

What should I do the next time she brings him up?

[avvril3000]

we've been one month together, her ex isn't over her and continued chasing her and still is . Thing is , for the first 2 weeks of relationship I tolerated this attitude and I listened to her, now it's becoming annoying .

She says stuff like " he tried calling me 3 times today and I didn't reply " or like " he tried to force me to talk to him on the spot in public but I didn't allow him " . I know she is so over him and they've been separated for a long time, even their whole relationship was a turmoil (they broke up 6 times in 4 months, it was that bad) .

 

But her ex doesn't get it at all, he keeps on chasing her .She blocked him everywhere and he still doesn't give up.

 

Anyway, today she also was like " he called me when I was in class and I didn't reply " so I literally said " can we just limit talks about him?!" .She justified it by saying that she doesn't wanna hide anything from me but come on man I don't wanna hear such things .

 

What should I do the next time she brings him up?

 

If she "blocked him everywhere" how is he able to still call her? no offence,she might be over him, but i think she likes being chased and wanted and longed for.

 

you need to make it clear to her that if she wants you, then she really must block him which means absolute no contact. She is disrespecting your current relationship if she does not.

 

The only exception would be if she thought she could have a friendship with the guy but from the way she speaks, this is not possible coz he still wants her more than a friend.

[Butterfly213]

If she "blocked him everywhere" how is he able to still call her? no offence,she might be over him, but i think she likes being chased and wanted and longed for.

 

you need to make it clear to her that if she wants you, then she really must block him which means absolute no contact. She is disrespecting your current relationship if she does not.

 

The only exception would be if she thought she could have a friendship with the guy but from the way she speaks, this is not possible coz he still wants her more than a friend.

 

What's happening to her is that all of her friends are his friends as well. So they are setting traps for her , in which they invite her over and once she arrived bam her ex is there and they try to make them reconcile, she leaves immediately . She didn't block him from calling her, she blocked him on social median and whatsapp though

 

She is also afraid he might come knocking on her door because he is THAT desperate (he's done it before)