loverboi101 Posted April 3, 2017 Posted April 3, 2017 Ive been trying to get more tinder matches for a while now. I have tried literally everything. Only one video helped me a bit, this one; But I still have a lot of problems. Do any of you have any advice for a desperate man in his prime? Thank you!
curiouslysearching Posted April 3, 2017 Posted April 3, 2017 shirtless photo in the bathroom mirror?? would having six pack abs help in your opinion, Smackie? 2
curiouslysearching Posted April 3, 2017 Posted April 3, 2017 shirtless photo in the bathroom mirror?? Smackie has left me high and dry on this one....I was taking notes
Grey40 Posted April 3, 2017 Posted April 3, 2017 shirtless photo in the bathroom mirror?? Don't do this. Pictures are obviously the key, because it's all people have to go by on Tinder. There's a great website called photofeeler.com, that allows you to upload pictures of youself and have them rated on a scale by Women (or men depending what you choose). They rank you based on Attractive, Smart, and Trustworthy. You need to upload a bunch of pictures on there and then choose the top 3-4 that get ranked the highest. Go from there. Picture needs to be fairly close, with your face definitley visible. Avoid group photos, photos where it's just your back, photos with bad lighting etc. You get the point. Having a bio definitely helps. So, if you don't have one at all, make one. Keep it short and to the point, be yourself and stay ultra positive. No disclaimers (ex "don't talk to me if...), just bring out all the positive traits and attributes about yourself. Lastly, swipe a lot and swipe often. The more often you log into Tinder, the higher the algorithm puts you and the more you get seen by people searching. Swipe multiple times per day in sessions, until you run out of likes for that day. 2
Justanaverageguy Posted April 3, 2017 Posted April 3, 2017 (edited) Enjoyed smackies advice :laugh: My honest advice would be - just be a real person. Try and convey your personality in a fun and interesting way. Stay away from posey artsy photos of yourself where you are pretending to be a model - and show some real photos of you doing what you love. Maybe out with friends, playing with your dog, camping, cooking, traveling, playing sport. Basically doing whatever it is that you love to do. Make your profile look like you are a real person and not a cardboard cut out. Some many people trying to be fake and come up with the perfect version of themselves to try and impress people - just be real show who you are and it will stand out on tinder more then you realize Edited April 4, 2017 by Justanaverageguy
JennyBean Posted April 4, 2017 Posted April 4, 2017 Obviously pictures get noticed first. I'd like to see a guy on his own, not any group photos. No frills, no gimmicky pictures. Just your face and an idea of your body type. Profile wise I want something that stands out, not something generic. It doesn't have to be over the top, but something that lets me know you put some effort into it. Hope this helps.
curiouslysearching Posted April 4, 2017 Posted April 4, 2017 Obviously pictures get noticed first. I'd like to see a guy on his own, not any group photos. No frills, no gimmicky pictures. Just your face and an idea of your body type. Profile wise I want something that stands out, not something generic. It doesn't have to be over the top, but something that lets me know you put some effort into it. Hope this helps. Ok, I was gonna show Smackie my abs
reeseyummy Posted April 4, 2017 Posted April 4, 2017 My honest advice would be - just be a real person. Love this. Tinder does have a lot of strange... But there are some nice guys up there too, who aren't looking for a hook-up, they are just as worried as a girl worrying about ONS. Be a real person, meet up and stay safe. I've met a couple guys that turned out to be nice friends.
Medsop Posted April 4, 2017 Posted April 4, 2017 Ive been trying to get more tinder matches for a while now. I have tried literally everything. Only one video helped me a bit, this one; But I still have a lot of problems. Do any of you have any advice for a desperate man in his prime? Thank you! I think just having the right pics. Some of my pics generate more matches than others so I think it's all about the pics
joseb Posted April 4, 2017 Posted April 4, 2017 Lastly, swipe a lot and swipe often. The more often you log into Tinder, the higher the algorithm puts you and the more you get seen by people searching. Swipe multiple times per day in sessions, until you run out of likes for that day. Yip, I'll add if you swipe right all the time i believe you get down ranked by the algorithm, so maybe consider that. But being a regular logger in definitely helps. However, no matter what, after a while you will get less and less matches (unless you move to a new area). Not sure how much of this is a deliberate algorithm, or its simply you start to run out of real profiles and tinder just shows you anything, which can be a lot of fakes and bots.
Titanll Posted April 4, 2017 Posted April 4, 2017 shirtless photo in the bathroom mirror?? Works everytime! haha!
Titanll Posted April 4, 2017 Posted April 4, 2017 Are you seriously taking this youtube video seriously? I can't tell if we are being humorous here or what. Lie about your height? Really?
Jj66 Posted April 4, 2017 Posted April 4, 2017 Seems like spam to me. I met my future wife on Tinder.
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