DMVeep Posted April 2, 2017 Posted April 2, 2017 I recently went on a first date with two women. I am very interested in woman A, we have a second date Tuesday. Woman B is only available on Monday and Tuesday, then has family visiting for the rest of the week. B was more of a lukewarm date, she seemed a little reserved but might have some potential, I debated whether I should even ask her for a second date. I could theoretically cram a date with B in tomorrow but I don't want be exhausted for Tuesday. Personally, I think Monday dates are terrible to begin with. However, I won't have an opportunity to see her again until the following week. Last week, I went out with 3 different ladies and the expenses are piling up and I'm beat. Any thoughts?
SevenCity Posted April 2, 2017 Posted April 2, 2017 I know the feeling - I'm going broke lol! Since you have better prospects I would hold off and see where it goes with the others. Dating multiple women is exhausting so I understsnd. You don't want to get burned out by a lame Monday date. On the other hand, you can have an excuse to make it a short date and eliminate her without spending much more or line her up for the following week if it goes better. I can't do a date on Monday myself - I need to recover from the weekend and first day back at work. 1
smackie9 Posted April 2, 2017 Posted April 2, 2017 Don't bother with B and say you will plan another date at a later time because she is going to be busy. Stick with A. Try and get another date with A for a weekend date as well....if it doesn't work out B will be available after she is done with the family stuff.
Author DMVeep Posted April 2, 2017 Author Posted April 2, 2017 Don't bother with B and say you will plan another date at a later time because she is going to be busy. Stick with A. Try and get another date with A for a weekend date as well....if it doesn't work out B will be available after she is done with the family stuff. My first date with B was Thursday, so any time next week will be at least about 10 days after our first date, so I'm concerned it will be too long of a lapse.
Author DMVeep Posted April 2, 2017 Author Posted April 2, 2017 Don't bother with B and say you will plan another date at a later time because she is going to be busy. Stick with A. Try and get another date with A for a weekend date as well....if it doesn't work out B will be available after she is done with the family stuff. This probably makes sense. I don't see a point in investing in a lukewarm situation when I have another good prospect lined up. If things don't work out with A, I can try to pick up B next week. I offered to meet B initially later in the week so she had no reason to believe I am going to be available early in the week.
act00 Posted April 2, 2017 Posted April 2, 2017 Don't lose the momentum. If Woman B has limited availability, then Monday it is. Bite the bullet, if she's worth pursuing, and you don't want to lose the momentum. I don't do Monday's well either, but I did it with this new guy because I really like him, and sooner over later is better. Obligations made the rest of the week impossible, til Friday. This week I'm asking for Tuesday. I'm only dealing with one person, however. You need to decide how you want to manage yourself and these women. You lament it's costing you a small fortune. You're choosing to date multiple women, and maybe you should just stick with one at a time. I mean, what's happening with the three women from last week? Any plans on second dates with them? Woman B is "lukewarm," but you think there's some potential there, so go out with her while the time is ripe. If you're really not that into her, see what happens when her family obligations are complete next week. What's happening with the three women from last week?
d0nnivain Posted April 2, 2017 Posted April 2, 2017 The 1950s are over. You don't only have to date on a certain day of the week. It should be more about spending time with the person & less about the day of the week.
Medsop Posted April 2, 2017 Posted April 2, 2017 (edited) I recently went on a first date with two women. I am very interested in woman A, we have a second date Tuesday. Woman B is only available on Monday and Tuesday, then has family visiting for the rest of the week. B was more of a lukewarm date, she seemed a little reserved but might have some potential, I debated whether I should even ask her for a second date. I could theoretically cram a date with B in tomorrow but I don't want be exhausted for Tuesday. Personally, I think Monday dates are terrible to begin with. However, I won't have an opportunity to see her again until the following week. Last week, I went out with 3 different ladies and the expenses are piling up and I'm beat. Any thoughts? lol I am taking a break too, my bank account is at capacity:D Just had a second date last and next week I plan to chill and give my account a rest. I would say come up with a family even excuse to buy yourself some time or sick. I would give Woman B one more shot and see what happens Edited April 2, 2017 by Medsop
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