FaithInTheDark Posted April 1, 2017 Posted April 1, 2017 Hi, I've noticed with my experience with men I've met is... We'll have great intial contact, even see kissing if the feeling is right and afterwards they'll even say they think I'm beautiful, so glad they met and can't wait to see me again. Now, I'm 27 and I'm not as nieve as I used to be so this doesn't hurt me or take me by surprise because people say one thing and do another. But, why? Recently, I went on a online date. It went well. ie: good conversation, seemed to hit it off blah blah. Guy even called to see if I got home okay, said he would like to spend more time with me as well. The frequency of texts are very minimal from him now. I asked if he'd like to get together again and he said "very much so... Would you? " I said for sure. Next day went by he asked if I was working tomorrow I said yes but he never messaged back . Today I said I would be free in the evening except that day. He said "we'll figure something out" Just seems like he isn't that egar to keep in connection with me. I deleted his number (if he reaches out I'd be open to hanging out) ... Why do guys do this? Does this guy actually want to see me again? Any insight on why men do this
Tressugar Posted April 1, 2017 Posted April 1, 2017 I think if you have to ask the guy if you're gonna hang out again it's usually, not always, a bad sign...meaning he wasn't interested. That's my take. 1
Tressugar Posted April 1, 2017 Posted April 1, 2017 [y one thing and do another. But The frequency of texts are very minimal from him now. I asked if he'd like to get together again and he said "very much so... Would you? " I said for sure. To me those are red flags to me. He deflected your question back on you. That's a no go. Leave dude alone in the dust. 2
Author FaithInTheDark Posted April 2, 2017 Author Posted April 2, 2017 Ok, yes. I got that vibe. Which is fine... I deleted his phone number today. But what I don't get is why do men instant after a date shower me with compliments and talk about second dates then flake out. Lol why not just hug goodbye bye and never text me again lol 1
Tressugar Posted April 2, 2017 Posted April 2, 2017 A lot of these men are bullsh*tters. They like to leave that proverbial door open just in case when the well dries where they're watering the grass they can come back to pick up where they left off.
mushroomlol Posted April 2, 2017 Posted April 2, 2017 I think I had the same situations but somehow it all led to something longer...but not ended well
Author FaithInTheDark Posted April 2, 2017 Author Posted April 2, 2017 A lot of these men are bullsh*tters. They like to leave that proverbial door open just in case when the well dries where they're watering the grass they can come back to pick up where they left off. Okay, thanks. I actually makes a lot of sense.
angel.eyes Posted April 2, 2017 Posted April 2, 2017 Ok, yes. I got that vibe. Which is fine... I deleted his phone number today. But what I don't get is why do men instant after a date shower me with compliments and talk about second dates then flake out. Lol why not just hug goodbye bye and never text me again lol He's not really interested, but he's putting you on the back burner in case he doesn't find someone better. The best way to get you to sit there waiting is to distract you with compliments and string you along with an implied date in the vague future. Focus on his actions. No concrete date on your calendar = don't bother to respond to random, erratic texts from him. He's wasting your time.
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